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s1 e37: this week we welcome vicki to the pod!! someone who has depth and breadth of experience building, tending, and sustaining deep friendships and a romantic relationship for more than 10 years! we inject hope back into the conversation about changing community... that it IS possible to foster and healthy, stable relationships across the board, and how to do it. learn with us :).

s1 e36: sometimes you meet someone, hit it off... and sometimes it unfortunately comes to an end. breakups suck.

this episode, we process (maybe vent about) how breakup convos have been handled maturely and well, handled poorly, and handled real stoopid. can you relate?

s1 e35: you know that moment when you come home to a text from your day 1 bestie (and/or your roommate) telling you they're ~ dating ~ :')what's your reaction? what's your role to play in vetting this new stranger?? hear what we did, featuring our good friend (and long-time roommate of the boyfriend,) sean lin.#dating #twenties #roommates

s1 e34: how girls think about their guy friends
so let's say your guy friend comes up to you asking about your girl friend... do you help him? is he worth being helped?
all these scenarios and more with our friend and neighbor Daren, welcoming him onto the pod to get the insider info on how girl friends talk to each other about the guys they know... and what it takes to get an in with her friends. plus some takes from a guy who has 3 sisters and just gets it

s1 e33: whether it's a new relationship, or friends visiting the city, or travel fatigue, or moving apartments... sometimes we're brought to the end of ourselves, socially, mentally, physically -- and it makes us frenzied, forgetful, dropping the ball on important people and things, or just tired.

carol and cinder reflect on this, coming off of a particularly busy season of life. join a very cathartic session, and drop your advice on finding rhythm amidst handling busy seasons.

s1 e32: how long distance saved my relationship ft. evelyn

what does it take to actually make it? and are there even maybe... advantages? we finally have evelyn (aka ed, aka the person who named us) on the pod 🙂

this week ev shares her long distance story - how they went from college floormates to long distance when she started PA school in norcal, what it took to make it work, and what love looks like when you strip away the convenience of proximity

spoilerrr: it was worth it

have you ever watched your friend make a really bad dating decision and debate if you should say something? when to say it? how??? that’s what we break down this week: how we’ve done it through the years of witnessing each other’s dating lives, how we’ve stepped in and/or overstepped, defended and offended, intervened and stood up for each others’ best interests, even when the other person wasn't doing it for themselves :). that, along with spicy stories possibly exposed on this episode.

we're back, and we missed you!! on this week's pod, we kick it with chunch (aka andrew cheng) to get a glimpse into the male brain on dating expectations, food choices, traveling, and other random things we think about in our 20s. disclaimer: content includes excessive roasting and sarcasm, do not take 99% of this episode seriously.

something they don't tell you about graduating college is that life gets more serious, including the relationships you explore, create, and keep :). this week, carol and cinder spill some beans on what their unique experiences were of dating in college vs. dating as post-grads; what's easier, what's harder, and what will never be the same...

WE HEARD YOU. this time, we invited two friends chunch (aka andrew c) & matty z (aka matt zhang) onto the pod for their takes on YOUR stories of being led on by someone or accidentally leading someone on (oof) to shed light on the MALE PERSPECTIVES on these grey area situations.

we give our honest takes on who was innocent, who's definitely guilty, and debate with each other on those :'). whose perspective do you agree with most? which one of us are WRONG?

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watch the previous episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/25cWwa2lKmJ6C0zYD3jVoY?si=f753b04eace14190

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ty to the homies for joining

chunch (aka andrew c) on IG: @andrew7cheng

matty z (aka matt) on IG: @the_amazhang