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join us as we recap some of our biggest conflicts — and unpack others in real time (:

call it a committed relationship (lease-dependent), domestic partnership, or marriage without the vows; we call it being roommates for 5+ years. join this week as we break down how it all started, and tune in next week for how we fight it out B).

what we're looking forward to, carrying with us, and leaving behind in 2026. sharing our first, top-of-da-dome thoughts drawing from what we learned in 2025 for taking on the new year.

join as we look back on the defining, formative, joyful stressful big & most memorable moments of our 2025.

Join as we spill the tea on working in Big 4 & Big Tech vs. startup life -- the highs, lows, trauma (???), and more very good stories.

nyc is a big city. sometimes it's scary. join as we noodle on that conundrum.

00:00 Intro

04:41 Thesis: density does not equal connection

05:30 (1) Putting yourself out there

09:06 (2) Sharing seasons vs. life stages

15:22 (3) (Lack of) neighborhood culture

22:25 Bonus: mastering the art (not us)

26:25 Conclusion or things

cinder: "yooo wanna move to ny?" carol: "down." join us as we retro on the good, the bad, and the ugly of our decision.

what if we recorded our conversations so we could reference them later?instagram: @cinder_and_carol