we dont know yet

we invited on our native New Yorker friend to talk about what it was actually like growing up in the great city, and how it differs from our suburb lives.

tune in as we go head-to-head to decide what's better -- childhood in the city or 'burbs?

ft. ken jiang

it's 2026 and we’re still not over The Summer I Turned Pretty.from breaking down what team Conrad vs team Jeremiah says about your attachment style, to how tv love compares to nyc dating scene, and growing up alongside your best friends... we dig into the life lessons behind belly's life (feat. our favorite special guests, dan jai & maria tu.)

what team are you on???

meeting us in a very chinese time of our lives... since 2000. growing up, we catch bits and pieces of their journeys to america, but we rarely get the full story. now, in our 20s, we put some of those pieces together and reflect on how that immigrant life shaped who we've become -- how we see work, money, family, and identity as part of communities that forged a sense of home in new places.

what happens when you visit your parents' hometowns as a Chinese immigrant kid? you feel EVERYTHING.

in celebration of lunar new year, we reflect on our recent trips back home to the motherland of china – reuniting with relatives, realizing how our lives are perceived in america, and confronting the lifestyle gaps between east and west. we talk immigrant identity, generational changes, and the irreplaceable love of family <3.

share your stories of trips back home with us too!

this week, we’re unpacking the underrated transition from college to corporate life — from realizing you’re fully responsible for your own money to planning your entire week around a piece of meat you defrosted and now have to eat.

are you loving adulthood or highkey spiraling every day? let us know. also if you were well prepared for adulthood, please give us some tips.

this week, we’re pitting nyc vs. sf against each other. from living on both coasts and the experiences of friends who have done the same, we break down everything from how culture + social life to weather + rent change what your life looks like.
and the real question: will we move back to the bay? let us know what you think.

this week, we go to bat with our good (enemies) friends from the ivy league to debate which is better: public, in-state tuition where we fight for seats in class, or private, well-funded football stadiums for 4x the price. join as we spill tea and mems on our favorite parts (and least) of college :).

this week's thesis: how you spend each day is how you spend your life. but, how do you decide what to fill your (dwindling) hours of free time? what do you want with your life? that and more existential angst on this week's episode.

LDR struggles are real for friends too!!! join as we break down unspoken expectations, the effects of different attachment styles, and things that sometimes work :)

join as we unleash the gamut of corporate work woes and overcoming cultural definitions of "success" in order to define our own :).