last week's episode was about the *art* of networking - how to get INTO the group. this week is about how you get kicked OUT of one. it's social faux pas, what NOT to do, and what gives us the ick.

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𝗘𝗿𝗶𝗰 𝗪𝗲𝗶 (⁠@trykarat) - IG: https://www.instagram.com/erictway

co-founder of Karat Financial, helping creators with finances

𝗖𝗵𝗹𝗼𝗲 𝗦𝗵𝗶𝗵 ⁠(@chloeshih) IG: / https://www.instagram.com/chloe.shih/

tech product manager sharing perspectives on career, life advice, and living in your 30s.

Editor: Lucas Falkavage and Jayna Benito

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0:00 no queen, you slay!

0:45 the truth about our patreon...

2:23 eric's filthy toes

3:02 horseback riding with the BOYZ

7:29 feeling better about building this startup

9:30 being with people we don't like

10:04 chloe's events w/ Asian Founders Network and Beacons

11:16 eric pinging chloe's discord manager

11:45 chloe fumbled at beacons dinner

13:32 chloe's hosting lenalemon and stellachuu

14:18 the mystery of grandma

15:42 chloe's mental breakdown

16:50 so there was this creepy tech guy...

20:22 kicking people out + setting boundaries

21:51 doing reference checks on the creep

22:59 I just found out he did that...

23:49 when you don't like your friend's friend

27:40 what's socially NOT ok?

29:00 what gets you BANNED

30:13 who's +1 are they?!

31:43 the emperor has no clothes

34:02 they snuck in and used us, wtf?

36:05 the attachment style theory

39:01 your problem is my problem

40:18 resolving conflicts w family (daddy chill!)

42:31 resolving conflicts in relationships

44:48 chloe left her nonprofit

46:11 stanford's touchy feely learnings

49:25 the feedback given to eric

51:04 what to do with fringe friends you don't like

53:02 social faux pas!

57:03 how to pass the vibe check

1:01:51 story: chloe's mentor

1:04:01 people talk...

1:05:41 takeaways: u gotta be a hater

1:06:46 a study on cutting off your family

1:09:28 don't lie