Today’s No More Perfect Podcast episode is one I have been excited to share for quite some time. That’s because the couple Mark and I are talking with have made a huge difference in our lives.

Have you ever heard of Love Styles? This isn’t Love Languages. It’s something very different.

Our Love Styles are formed in primary attachment, like our childhood home and family, and they become more evident in later connections, such as in marriage or parenting. When we understand our Love Style, we can heal from our past wounds, repair painful relating patterns, and rebuild our relationships in healthy ways.

In this episode we talk about love styles in general and in the marriage relationship, but even if you’re not married I want to encourage you to listen in because you have a love style you need to be aware of!

Milan and Kay Yerkovich, experts on attachment and best-selling authors, are our guests today. Our marriage was transformed in large part through their book, How We Love. The book uncovers unhelpful relating patterns formed in childhood that we carry over into our relationships in adulthood.

In today’s episode, you’ll hear:

• How Love Styles work
• What the 5 Love Styles are
• How we can move towards a Secure attachment style
• Why many of the biggest challenges in marriage start in childhood
• And so much more!

This topic is so important, and is a huge part of the marriage coaching and marriage intensives Mark and I do. Listen in!

Show Notes: https://jillsavage.org/milan-kay-yerkovich-108/

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