What The Nanny Heard

This week, Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie chat with the wonderful Maria, whose journey from nanny to House Manager is nothing short of inspiring.

Arriving in England with zero English, Maria worked her way up with resilience, confidence, and an unshakeable belief in her worth. From au pairing in Italy at 17, to a life-changing move from North London to Kensington, Maria has never shied away from fighting for what she deserves — from contracts and holiday pay to proper payslips.

Her career story is full of bold decisions and brilliant twists, including applying for a role that required Hindi (a language she didn’t speak!) — and proving that her passion for India and her exceptional skill set were more than enough to land the job. Her position began as a temp role. She showed the family her loyalty, commitment and expert childcare skills; ultimately leading to her becoming their household manager. 

Maria’s journey shows what’s possible when determination meets self-respect.

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This week, Charlotte, Charlie and Millie explore how parenting styles have evolved over the decades — and where Nannies sit within that shift.

The trio dive into the contrast between traditional and modern approaches to raising children, and how their own Nannying styles fit into today’s landscape. They unpack the discipline methods they do and don’t use, what’s changed over the years, and how to strike a healthy balance between a structured, educational routine and a more fluid, boundary-light approach.

As Nannies, we have a responsibility to support children’s learning through play — but where do screens fit into that? Should Nannies be teaching children how to use technology, or is that the job of parents and schools?

Charlotte, Charlie and Millie also break down the most common parenting styles, reveal which Nannying style each of them naturally leans toward, and how they adapt or merge their approaches when working with different families.

With childcare costs rising, extended family members are now more involved than ever — adding a whole new dynamic of childcare styles for Nannies to navigate.

Dear Charlotte’s DMs

I’ll be taking the toddler that I look after to the library. Can you tell me what your favourite children’s books are?

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Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie tackle the tricky subject of managing conflict in nanny roles.

Even in the happiest positions, disagreements can arise — and that’s perfectly normal.

Conflict doesn’t necessarily mean it’s time to end the partnership; often, it’s simply time for an honest, calm conversation before any resentment builds.

The discussion covers:

• How to stay professional when things don’t go the way you hoped.
• When to ride out the storm — knowing your family and recognising when external factors, like stress at their work, might be influencing their behaviour.
• How to handle things gracefully if termination becomes unavoidable — maintaining professionalism and integrity through your notice period.
• Why expressing your feelings and experiences helps employers grow and become better bosses.

Dear Charlotte’s DMs

Hi Girls really live the podcast. I work in one of those communal garden squares in London. All the children that play in this garden end up coming into my Nanny family's house and they end up playing and none of the other nannies or parents ever reciprocate. I am resentful and I am burnt out at taking care of all the other people’s children.

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In this week’s episode, Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie discuss how Nannies can set themselves apart in a competitive industry—whether it’s during an interview, at a networking event, or in everyday practice.

The ladies share practical advice on presenting yourself professionally, making strong first impressions, and perfecting your CV. They also explore the importance of your online presence (because yes, everyone Googles!) and offer tips on how to go above and beyond in your role as a Nanny.

Dear Charlotte’s DMs

How do you go about instilling good table manners when children’s parents are around and they don’t help? I am currently looking after 7 year old, a 5 year old and a 2 year old and they keep getting up during meals. They don’t sit properly, they won't use their knives and folks, they chew with their mouths open and they don't eat with their plates and they don’t clear up their mess. I am at a complete loss. Please help.

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Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie sit down with Mark from Nannytax to lift the lid on the financial side of Nanny life — from pay slips to protection.

Mark shares valuable insight into how Nannytax supports both Nannies and their employers. He openly addresses the all-too-common issue of Nannies being mistreated and offers clear, practical advice on how Nannies can protect themselves professionally.

Mark breaks down many important topics, including:

    •    The old Net vs Gross pay debate — and why agreeing on gross is essential

    •    What should be on your payslip (and what to check!)

    •    Overtime, expenses, and bonuses — what’s fair and what’s legal

    •    Crucial advice for Nannies in job share roles

He also lets us know of potential up and coming Government employment and payrol changes.

This is a must-listen for any Nanny who wants to understand their rights, their payslip, and how to get the respect (and pay!) they deserve.

A massive thanks to Mark and Nannytax.

Podcast Links:

Nanny Tax:

https://www.nannytax.co.uk/

Your Nanny Network Contract:

https://www.yournannynetwork.co.uk/resource-library

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Charlotte, Charlie and Millie are celebrating a HUGE milestone... a year of What The Nanny Heard.

Over the past year the podcast has reached listeners in over 65 countries and passed 10,000 downloads.

What started as a dream to make Nannies feel seen and heard has grown into a global community that embraces and celebrates the profession.

In this special anniversary episode, the ladies reflect on:

• The biggest lessons they’ve learned over the past year
• The proudest moments and highlights of their individual journeys
• How stepping out of their comfort zones has shaped the show
• What’s next for What The Nanny Head?

It’s a heartfelt thank you to every Nanny, parent, and supporter who has tuned in and helped the podcast grow. Here’s to many more years of sharing stories, sparking conversations, and lifting up the nanny community... Thank you, THANK YOU!

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Charlotte, Charlie and Millie discuss the topic of AI and how it affects Nannying.

They discuss whether it is something Nannies need to be worried about.

It is common practice for parents today turn to Google, AI apps, and smart tech for advice and support, but what does that mean for the role of a professional nanny?

Is there a chance Nannies will be replaced by robots?!!

What does the use of AI and Google lack? The ladies discuss the positives and negatives of the rise of AI.

Listener Corner;

I am training my Nanny replacement and I am concerned about a few things. Should I mention this to the parents or let them iron them all themselves once the new Nanny has settled and I am gone

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Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie dive into the big topic of moving abroad for work as a Nanny. Together, they explore what to consider before taking the leap, what can go wonderfully right, and the challenges that might arise along the way.

They highlight the importance of due diligence: making sure Nannies have the correct paperwork in place before starting a role overseas. The ladies also share what every Nanny should know in case of an emergency, ensuring safety and peace of mind while working abroad.

Charlotte, Charlie and Millie encourage Nannies to research their new destination carefully. Will you thrive best in a busy city, or would a quieter countryside setting suit you more? These choices can make all the difference when it comes to settling in and enjoying the experience to the fullest.

Whether you’re a Nanny considering an international move or just curious about the process, this episode is full of practical advice and real talk about life as a Nanny abroad.

Listener Corner:

Do live in Nannies usually have curfews? I have just started my 1st live in job and the parents have just gien me a curfew of 10pm. I don’t think that is fair for weekends when i have the time off? What should i do?

Podcast Links:

Your nanny Network Moving Abroad Resource

https://www.yournannynetwork.co.uk/resource-library

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Charlotte, Charlie, and Milie discuss the importance of boundaries for Nannies within their employment role, and why they matter for both the Nanny and the employer. Boundaries help create a healthy, respectful working relationship and protect the wellbeing of everyone involved.

They explore what happens if a Nanny hasn’t set a specific boundary during the interview or trial period, reassuring listeners that it’s never too late to establish them once in post. The conversation also covers how boundaries may need to change over time if personal circumstances shift, and offers practical hints and tips to help Nannies feel more confident and assertive when communicating those changes.

The episode also looks at how to handle situations where an employer may not be happy with a boundary being set or adjusted, and how to navigate those conversations while staying professional.

Finally, the ladies share advice on negotiating when your boundaries differ from those of a previous Nanny, helping you to set clear expectations from the start.

Listener Corner:

I’m an anonymous employer and our Nanny has been with us for almost a year. What would you, as a Nanny, want to be told and/or have the opportunity to raise or ask in an annual review?

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Charlotte, Charlie and Millie sit down with Larissa from The ChildCare Guide to discuss all things childcare choices.

Larissa shares how she supports parents through the often overwhelming process of choosing the right childcare. She breaks down the different types of providers, what families can expect from each, and how to make sure they’re asking the right questions to find the perfect match.

Larissa explains the importance of the childcare provider in order to ensure continuity and stability for children and families. The key red flags Nannies should watch out for when looking for their ideal family as well as practical tips to make the search smoother for both parents and nannies

Whether you are a Nanny, a parent, or just curious about the childcare world, this episode is packed with insight!

Links to Podcast:

Larrisa’s book:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/childcare-Questions-meeting-potential-providers/dp/B0DK9WMPTV

Larrisa's website:

https://www.thechildcareguide.co.uk/

What The Nanny Heard Interview Tips' Episode:

https://open.spotify.com/episode/5n6tEH5uPggO38JONW7vZR?si=1JSkz93qQZeP5FauXtKY9w

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