What The Nanny Heard

Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie interview Julia, a teacher, tutor, and experienced travel nanny, as she shares her adventures and anecdotes from working around the world.

Julia talks through what to consider when deciding whether a travel role is the right fit, starting with the brief. Does it align with her values, experience, and instincts? If so, the initial interview is absolutely imperative. She explains how she uses this stage to gather key information about the type of trip, expectations, and responsibilities, as well as the importance of thorough pre-trip research. Cultural norms, local customs, and weather conditions all play a vital role in preparing for a successful placement.

She discusses the wide range of travel experiences she’s had, from immersive cultural adventures to living on a beach that could be anywhere in the world. Not all settings are without risk, though, and Julia shares her thoughts on the perils of places like water parks and how to manage them safely.

Julia highlights the essential skills required for travel nannying, including planning inventive activities, forming quick and meaningful bonds with children, and confidently establishing boundaries and discipline in unfamiliar environments.

She also shares her tried-and-tested travel hacks for airports, flights, and keeping children entertained throughout holidays, along with lessons learned from common pitfalls—yes, including the dreaded lost luggage.

Podcast Links:

My travelling Nanny Agency

https://www.mytravellingnanny.co.uk/

Julia’s IG: @missjseal 

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Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie discuss the age-old question: who are Nannies really training — the children or the parents? They explore the delicate balance of managing expectations, routines, and boundaries in a role that often extends far beyond childcare.

The ladies discuss the familiar Monday struggle: returning to work after weekend routines have been completely undone. Is it back to square one every time? Do Nannies have the right to complain, or is professionalism about accepting that parents will do as they please during the Nanny’s time off? 

Also up for discussion is whether perspective and emotional resilience develop with experience, and if time in the job helps Nannies manage the mental load more effectively.

Charlotte and Millie then share their own distressing stories of being fibbed to by their parents! Reflecting on how those moments linger long after they happen — and why trust is such a crucial, and fragile, part of the Nanny–child relationship.

Charlotte’s DMs

I am in a bit of a tricky situation, please may you help me? My employers are always blaming me  for things that aren’t my fault. When things go missing I am accused or at least I am asked with many, many questions and if anything happens to the house or gets broken they always give me an accusing look.

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Charlotte, Charlie and Millie follow on from last week’s episode about goodbyes, focusing on the often-overlooked beginning: how nannies can confidently negotiate and navigate the early days of a new job.

Starting with a new family is rarely straightforward. Every household is different, every child is individual, and transitions can be challenging. Children may struggle with change, boundaries will almost certainly be tested, and it’s essential to start as you mean to go on — with clarity, consistency, and compassion.

The episode offers practical advice to help Nannies fully arm themselves for a strong, successful start. It’s about finding the balance between holding firm boundaries and showing empathy, taking baby steps, and understanding that trust takes time.

Charlotte’s DMs

Have you ever noticed that children act so much worse when their parents are at home?

Podcast Links:

1st Day checklist: https://www.yournannynetwork.co.uk/resource-library

Emergency contact

Daily Checklist: https://www.yournannynetwork.co.uk/resource-library

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Charlotte, Charlie and Millie discuss the moment a nanny realises it’s time to move on and everything that comes with that decision. They explore what Nannies leave behind — emotionally and practically — and whether this transition feels more sad or exciting.

The conversation covers leaving gifts (yes or no?), staying in touch after a role ends, birthdays and birthday presents, and the complex mix of emotions experienced by both the nanny and the child or children.

The ladies also share thoughtful advice on navigating this potentially tough time, including handling the handover to a new Nanny. Including passing on personal notes, hints and tips that can help instil confidence and reassurance in the children during the change.

Charlotte’s DMs

My family are expecting to have a new baby any day now soon and it’s a little girl. Should I get them a gift? And if so, do you know what I can get that is on the affordable side?

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Charlotte, Charlie and Millie revisit the hugely important topic of emotional wellbeing, exploring the often unseen emotional labour that Nannies carry every day. 

They discuss the importance of knowing and enforcing boundaries, particularly when overtime feels financially tempting but ultimately leads to burnout if rest is neglected. 

The conversation looks at what self-care realistically means in a Nanny’s day and how difficult it can be to switch off from the constant mental load of the role. They also question how much advice we can — or should — give fellow Nannies when we see their work-life balance slipping, and why so many of us place such high expectations on ourselves. 

The episode highlights the vital role of support networks and ends with a reminder that Nannies need to show themselves more kindness and learn how to let go of the pressure they carry.

Charlotte’s DMs

I have been asked to go on holiday with my Nanny family. I don’t usually do this. I have asked them to compensate me for the time away from my home and from my family and they have said no. I don’t know what to do, I love my job, but I see this as quite disrespectful of my time.

Podcast Links:

YNN Networking event link:

https://www.yournannynetwork.co.uk/networking-events

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This week on What The Nanny Heard, Charlotte, Charlie and Millie dive into the often-blurred lines of the Nanny/employer dynamic, exploring how Nannies can maintain a warm, friendly relationship without losing professional boundaries. 

They unpack what can happen when things become too familiar and how that impacts important employment-based conversations, including pay, responsibilities and expectations.

The ladies tackle the classic holiday dilemma—should Nannies join employers for dinner, is alcohol ever appropriate and, if so, where’s the limit?—as well as how much personal information is too much when trying to stay personable but professional. 

They also discuss navigating advice: how Nannies should communicate thoughtfully and respectfully when employers ask for opinions, or when offering guidance without overstepping. 

From social media friendships to off-duty interactions, this episode is all about protecting professionalism while still building healthy, respectful working relationships.

Charlotte’s DMs:

My employers are constantly coming home late. If they are ½ an hour or more late they pay me; but what if I want to be paid for every extra minute I work?

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Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie explore the purpose of trial days for Nannies — whether they’re truly necessary, what they reveal about compatibility, and how long they should realistically last, including when an overnight might be appropriate. 

They dig into the tricky subject of payment, from travel expenses to trial-day rates, and how Nannies can raise the topic confidently without feeling greedy, especially when they’re giving up their time and effectively working. 

They also look at what happens when families skip trials altogether, discussing how Nannies can still learn the home’s rhythms, expectations, and ask the awkward but important questions. Finally, they unpack the attitudes on both sides: what Nannies are looking for in parents during a trial, and what parents and children tend to look for in a nanny.

Charlotte’s DMs:

Is it appropriate for me to invite my Nanny family to my wedding?

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Charlotte, Charlie and Millie discuss the realities of caring for multiples—twins, triplets and beyond—and explore what Nannies need to consider before taking on this unique challenge. 

They discuss why caring for more than one child at the same developmental stage differs from working with a singleton, touching on the extra logistics, emotional load and constant balancing of competing needs. 

The conversation covers how day-to-day routines shift when managing multiples, from scheduling and outings to behaviour and individual attention, as well as practical ways to promote resilience and independence in young children even when the demands of caring for more than one toddler or preschooler can feel overwhelming.

Dear Charlotte’s Dms:

I keep getting sick from my Nanny kids. Do you refuse to work if the children come down with certain illnesses? 

Podcast links:

Your Nanny Network: Working With Multipules

https://f15540-df.myshopify.com/products/tips-for-working-with-multiples

Twins Trust:

https://twinstrust.org/who-we-are/work-for-twins-trust.html?fbclid=IwY2xjawHSTaBleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHW8tt4H4FCOBh_CH62XM9QlVFXiKOSo1xJa3TGtECZV1-R1FzzojsvXwxA_aem_IK_pfcznRZk3FPPG3_ac1w

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This week, Charlotte, Charlie and Millie speak with Chloe from Louenna’s Nannies to uncover what really happens behind the scenes at a nanny agency. With all recruiters coming from childcare backgrounds, Louenna’s Nannies brings a unique understanding to matching nannies with families, and Chloe explains how this experience shapes their onboarding and placement process.

Chloe shares practical advice on how Nannies can present themselves professionally and stand out during interviews. She covers everything from CV essentials to the importance of keeping CPD up to date. She also highlights the key dos and don’ts when applying for roles, emphasising the importance of clear communication, reliability and honest conversations about expectations.

The episode delves into current trends in Nannying styles and how modern roles have evolved in response to family needs. Chloe discusses how the cost of living has affected the market, including increased responsibilities, stagnant salaries, and why salary expectations must be discussed upfront — not after interviews or trials.

Chloe also addresses the complexities around bringing your own child to work, outlining what Nannies should consider and how to negotiate this transparently. Finally, she speaks openly about the lack of support some agencies offer their Nannies, a viewpoint fully aligned with Your Nanny Network.

Podcast Links:

Louenna’s Nannies: https://louenna.com/

https://apps.apple.com/gb/app/nanny-louenna/id1508344643

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Charlotte, Charlie and Millie discuss the importance of annual reviews and appraisals in every Nanny role. They're not just about asking for something like a pay rise. They provide a valuable opportunity for an open and honest discussion about your current role, what’s going well, and how your position is likely to evolve over the next year. It’s a dedicated moment to reflect on how your responsibilities may have shifted and to ensure you and the family remain aligned.

The ladies discuss key focuses of the review such as the children’s development. Discuss their milestones, progress, and any areas where support may need to adapt. This is also the time to look ahead at upcoming changes — for example, if school will start earlier next term or if after-school activities like ballet are moving to a later time. Instead of simply raising problems, come prepared with potential solutions so you can work collaboratively on what the new routine could look like.

Preparation makes a huge difference. Before the meeting, take time to reflect on your achievements over the past year and set some clear goals for the year ahead. Going in with notes not only helps you feel confident but also ensures you cover everything you need to. After the review, write up what was discussed and keep it for your own records. It’s a great way to keep track of your progress, and it can be a brilliant pick-me-up when you need a reminder of how far you’ve come.

Dear Charlotte’s DMs

Is it appropriate to ask my employer for an advance? They can’t pay their rent and keep getting late charges.

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