Equestrian Performance Mindset

What to do when People Misjudge You - #208


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Have you ever felt frustrated that people have the wrong image of you, that they don’t see how hard you actually work?

Maybe they assume you’re lucky, spoiled, or that things just come easy… when in reality, you’re grinding every day.

In this honest and eye-opening episode, I and Lorna unpack why we care so deeply about what others think, and how to let go of that need for approval so you can focus on your path, your values, and your goals.

We explore what’s really happening beneath the surface when you feel judged or misunderstood; from subconscious fears of not belonging to insecurities about your worth, and we share practical tools to shift your mindset back into confidence, clarity, and self-trust.

You’ll Learn:

  • Why people’s opinions of you are never in your control
  • How subconscious fears trigger your need for acceptance
  • The link between caring what others think and not trusting yourself
  • A simple question to reconnect with your authentic self: “What do I want when no one else is watching?”
  • How to stop overthinking, start trusting your instincts, and ride (and live!) with confidence
  • Key Quotes: 

    1. “It’s not the thought that’s the problem, it’s how long you hang onto it.”
    2. “If it’s not something you can control, it’s a waste of energy.”
    3. “Stop caring about what others think, and start caring more about what you think.” 
    4. Resources Mentioned:

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