A trigger is something that sets us off, usually in a negative way, bringing back an unpleasant memory or emotion that demands our attention. Our brains are naturally biased toward negativity. The great news is that there is a way to rebalance that bias. It's all about glimmers.

This episode is all about how to become a "glimmer hunter" and actively seek out these tiny positive moments using all five of your senses. You'll learn how to "collect" them like little gems and use them as a powerful reset button when a negative trigger tries to send you into a downward spiral. It’s not about pretending everything is perfect; it’s about realistically improving your mental state to become a more resilient and effective human being!

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NLP Trainers Training:

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Confident Rider Mindset Book/ Audiobook:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Confident-Rider-Mindset-Riding-Success/dp/B0BMPLCB7Z/ref=sr_1_1?crid=6KCWM6D43BT2&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.4pkr-o3d2vf5lIXP8ZO4GQ.ZAOQQmJLBq1ZoSiq1ytb3423Zz3p0mqdZfHY4IIjauM&dib_tag=se&keywords=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole&qid=1746616441&sprefix=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

Aileen Feeney is a producer of young showjumping and eventing horses. She show-jumped herself to a high level and ran a successful yard in Cheshire, England for 20 years before moving back and setting up business in Northern Ireland. Aileen is currently under investigation for Motor Neuron Disease (MND); this disease is a degenerative illness of the nervous system, usually progressing quickly and for which there is no  cure. 

We chat about Aileen's love of horses and show-jumping, how she produced young horses for elite British and Irish show-jumpers whilst in England and her move back home to Northern Ireland. She now co-owns Yellowfield Stables in County Antrim with her sister. 

When diagnosed with MND, Aileen set up the #mndonearmchallenge on social media to raise awareness of the disease. She has also started a Just Giving site where all donations, no matter how small, can be sent. All proceeds go to the Motor Neurone Disease Association. https://www.justgiving.com/page/onearmchallenge

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Yellowfield Stables - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100034428106538

MND One Arm Challenge https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577021617829

Just Giving https://www.justgiving.com/page/onearmchallenge

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If your mind feels like it’s stuck on repeat—goong round and round, replaying conversations and rides, worrying about things that haven’t happened or spiralling just when you need calm—this episode is for you. We’re talking about perseverative cognition (yes, it’s a mouthful and I can hardly say it!); why it happens, how it affects your body and what you can do to break the cycle. With practical NLP techniques like sensory shifts, future pacing, and the “worry window,” you’ll learn how to gently take back control from looping thoughts—whether you're riding, prepping, or just trying to sleep.

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Nicola Kinnard-Comedie (Msc, BHSAI Int. SM) is a mindset and business coach, helping equine and canine therapists to create their dream business, combining her industry experience with NLP Practitioner skills. Nicola mentors vets, and regularly lectures and speaks at Conferences in the UK and USA. She is the director of NKC Equestrian Training and host of the Healthy Horse Conference and annual CPD event for equine professionals and committed horse owners.

We chat about her horsey journey and how she moved from being a riding coach to where she is now - helping horse owners, vets, physios, chiropractors and others to know and share more about horse health and well-being.

Nicola's exclusive offer to all listeners

Enjoy a 25% discount on attending the Healthy Horse Conference 21st-22nd Nov (Day 1 online or in-person; Day 2 online). Use Discount code OXER25. https://www.nkcequestrian.com/product/the-healthy-horse-conference-online-ticket/

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Confident Rider Mindset Book/ Audiobook:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Confident-Rider-Mindset-Riding-Success/dp/B0BMPLCB7Z/ref=sr_1_1?crid=6KCWM6D43BT2&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.4pkr-o3d2vf5lIXP8ZO4GQ.ZAOQQmJLBq1ZoSiq1ytb3423Zz3p0mqdZfHY4IIjauM&dib_tag=se&keywords=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole&qid=1746616441&sprefix=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

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What if the key to achieving your riding goals isn't in doing more, but in thinking differently about time? And specifically about the ride to come.

In this episode,I talk about the fascinating world of Time Line Therapy®, focusing specifically on the underused future side of the time line—and how equestrians can harness this tool to unlock clarity, confidence, and calm in the saddle. Whether you're prepping for a show, overcoming nerves or simply striving for more consistency in your riding, 'future pacing' can become a powerful ally in your mental toolkit.

You'll also learn about the Prometheus Induction, a subtle yet powerful process that helps create a vivid, compelling vision of your future success—so your unconscious mind begins working toward it now.

🔹 Why equestrians often get stuck looping past experiences—and how to shift forward

Whether you're a dressage rider, jumper, eventer or happy hacker, this episode is packed with insights to help you ride with more purpose and power.

🎧 Hit play to explore the mental edge you didn’t know you needed—and don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode built to support your journey, in and out of the arena.

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Sarah Rao, aka The Chines Dressage Girl, is one of the most inspiring riders and influencers in China and also in the UK.

She's represented China numerous times and made history with the first double international win for China. She's a youth ambassador of an FEI charity programme. She's based in Cheshire with Sarah Higgins.

We chat about her childhood in China, coming to the UK, her horses (and their personalities), why she was drawn to dressage and her new brand - including a beautiful dragon design which will go onto white breeches, stitched in white for that understated, yet empowering look.

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Who hasn't come out of a ring or got back from a ride feeling frustration or disappointment? Who hasn't known that the nerves have got the better of them? It's that sinking feeling that our minds are controlling us. 

But there's no need to despair.

Today's episode gives you a very quick technique to get a FAST and EFFECTIVE perspective on your riding and yourself as a rider. Get proactive, rather than reactive.

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Join my Zoom Bootcamp 21st-25th July, 7pm-7:45pm UK time

Learn the powerful techniques that I use with my 1:1 clients and more in  a friendly atmosphere with multiple takeaways! £80 per person. All very welcome! https://traceycolenlp.com/group-mindset-bootcamp-for-riders/

Next NLP Practitioner and NLP Coach Training:

Starts 28th July. Every Monday 1:30-5pm UK time. No prior learning needed. Recordings made available. NLP only for Practitioner and 5 certifications for the NLP Coach (all internationally recognised, accredited and certified by professsional boards)

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Confident Rider Mindset Book/ Audiobook:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Confident-Rider-Mindset-Riding-Success/dp/B0BMPLCB7Z/ref=sr_1_1?crid=6KCWM6D43BT2&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.4pkr-o3d2vf5lIXP8ZO4GQ.ZAOQQmJLBq1ZoSiq1ytb3423Zz3p0mqdZfHY4IIjauM&dib_tag=se&keywords=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole&qid=1746616441&sprefix=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

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This week, I'm chatting with Ellie Halsey. Ellie did some sterling research on emotional labour in equestrian coaches and her findings are highly relevant to all riders and horse owners. Emotional labour is about the effortful way we all carry and suppress emotions in our daily lives, something equestrian coaches do quite a bit of!

Ellie is a Performance Coach/BHSI and British Equestrian Level 4 Coach, with an MSc in Professional Practice in Sport Coaching. She has been coaching for almost 30 years and is currently an equine lecturer at FE college. She also holds a coaching and mentoring certificate; and another hat she sometimes wears is an expedition leader for Camps International and she's off to Kenya this July!

Where to find Ellie

https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellie-halsey-23b283309/ 

Ellie's blog for equestrian coaches on the Riders Minds website 

https://ridersminds.org/2025/04/30/emotional-labour-in-equestrian-coaching/

The Riders Minds Equestrian Burnout Blog Mentioned by Ellie

https://ridersminds.org/2025/01/30/burnout-in-the-equestrian-industry/

Riders Minds Website - mental health support for anyone in anyway connected with horses - riders, horse owners, professionals, amateurs, recreational riders, grooms

https://ridersminds.org/get-support/

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✨NEW!! RIDER MINDSET BOOTCAMP ON ZOOM 21ST-25THJULY 7-7:45PM MON-FRI ✨ ALL WELCOME - SPACES ARE LIMITED! FIRST COME, FIRST SERVED https://traceycolenlp.com/group-mindset-bootcamp-for-riders/ 

Next NLP Practitioner and NLP Coach Training:

Starts 28th July. Every Monday 1:30-5pm UK time. No prior learning needed. Recordings made available. NLP only for Practitioner and 5 certifications for the NLP Coach (all internationally recognised, accredited and certified by professsional boards)

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A quick check-in with you, hpw are things going? How are your riding plans going?

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10th July 2025 at 6pm UK time - simply write a 5* review, email me to say you've done it and join the Zoom call or recording absolutely free, gratis and no cost!

UPCOMING EVENTS

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*Saturday 12th July*

Workshop 11am-1pm

This episode is a must-listen for chocolate lovers.  We're exploring how dark chocolate can do more than satisfy a craving—it can enhance cognitive performance, reduce stress and support learning, all backed by research from Loma Linda University. Drawing on findings from a 2018 brainwave study and a 2016 paper published in Appetite, we unpack how 70% cacao dark chocolate increases gamma brainwave activity linked to memory and focus, and supports neuroplasticity and mood regulation. You'll learn how to apply these insights directly to your riding routine—whether you're memorising a dressage test, walking a jump course, or reviewing a round. Practical, evidence-based, and a little indulgent—this is mindset coaching with a scientific twist.

Papers used in this episode

2018 Loma Linda Study (Berk et al., Experimental Biology): 48 g of 70% cacao dark chocolate enhances gamma brainwave activity, neural gene expression, and reduces inflammation and stress.

2016 Loma Linda Appetite Study (Crichton et al., Appetite): Regular chocolate consumers demonstrated better visual-spatial memory, working memory, and cognitive function overall.

Have you written a 5* review - email me (see below) and join me on the exclusive workshop on 10th July (recordings available)

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Next NLP Practitioner and NLP Coach Training:

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https://traceycolenlp.com/product/empowered-equestrian-coach/

NLP Trainers Training:

1:1 Start any time. Pre-requisite: Master NLP Practitioner https://traceycolenlp.com/nlp-trainers-training-curious-to-know-more/

Confident Rider Mindset Book/ Audiobook:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Confident-Rider-Mindset-Riding-Success/dp/B0BMPLCB7Z/ref=sr_1_1?crid=6KCWM6D43BT2&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.4pkr-o3d2vf5lIXP8ZO4GQ.ZAOQQmJLBq1ZoSiq1ytb3423Zz3p0mqdZfHY4IIjauM&dib_tag=se&keywords=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole&qid=1746616441&sprefix=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

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