The KYLO Show

When Success Covers Relational Disconnection


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Episode Overview

Recorded live in Birmingham, Alabama, this episode is part one of a tour conversation focused on leadership, connection, and transformation. The discussion centers on the reality that leadership doesn’t just happen on stages or platforms—it shows up in marriages, families, friendships, and how leaders respond to pressure and conflict. This conversation explores why real change requires honesty, vulnerability, and presence, especially for leaders who are used to being strong for others.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
  • Why leadership is more about asking the right questions than having the right answers

  • The tension between wanting transformation and resisting the process that produces it

  • How success can mask internal disconnection, exhaustion, and loneliness

  • Why high-capacity leaders often struggle to slow down and be honest about what’s really going on

  • The cost of isolation and why it leads to burnout and implosion

    Key Takeaways:
    • Transformation requires honesty before it produces freedom

    • Vulnerability is part of the process, not a weakness in leadership

    • External success does not guarantee internal connection

    • Isolation increases pressure and disconnects leaders from themselves and others

    • Integration matters: who you are on the inside needs to match how you live on the outside

      Join the Conversation:

      Where do you feel the gap between how things look externally and what’s happening internally? Reflect on where you might need to slow down, stay present, and invite others into what you’re carrying.

      Stay Connected:

      Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
      Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
      Instagram: @brittneyserpell


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