Last year there were 20,383 marriages registered in New Zealand, down from 23,043 a decade prior. We're also marrying later with forty-seven per cent of newlyweds being aged between 30 to 39. Tiare Tolks is the managing partner and relationship expert for Compatico, a matchmaking service for over-30s. She also has a background as a psychologist and relationship therapist and speaks to Emile about.