June 19, 2025

Why "Nice" Isn't Always Kind

12 minutes

Do you ever keep quiet at work just to avoid an uncomfortable conversation, even when you know something needs to be said?

In this episode of the Whole Assistant Podcast, I dive into the nuanced difference between simply being “nice” and genuinely being “kind” in our roles as executive support professionals. I encourage you to explore the impact your choices can have for both your executive and yourself, and consider what it really means to show up with integrity and compassion in your daily work.

In this episode, you will discover:

Why "nice" and "kind" are not the same, and how confusing the two can undermine your impact as an assistant.

How to handle uncomfortable but necessary conversations (including practical tips for speaking up with empathy and clarity).

The vital role honest feedback and boundary-setting play in building lasting professional trust.

Ways to discern when to lean into kindness (even if it’s awkward) and when being nice is the right move for the situation.

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