September 22, 2025

Why Women Lose Themselves In Relationships

1 hour 36 minutes

Have you ever felt like you're losing a piece of yourself in a relationship? Like the 'you' before your partner slowly fades away? In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa and Sovereign are diving deep into why so many women find themselves in this exact situation, exploring the subtle shifts and societal pressures that lead to a diminished sense of self when partnered. But first, in Tea Time, they discuss the latest NBC poll revealing Gen Z’s gender divide on what success means, Epstein’s infamous birthday book, and the heartbreaking story of an elderly man scammed by Meta’s flirty AI chatbot. Later, the hosts debut a brand new game called Therapy or the Void, putting characters of Sex and the City to the ultimate test.

🎧 This episode is all about recognizing the patterns that erase women’s individuality and finding the tools to prioritize independence, self-worth, and authenticity in relationships.

🎙️ Topics Discussed:

Why women minimize themselves to fit societal expectations

Sacrificing dreams and identity for partners

Media’s role in romanticizing unhealthy relationships

Gen Z’s gender divide on defining success

How women can reclaim independence and self-worth

✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:

NBC Poll: Gender Divide Among Gen Z on Defined Success

https://www.nbcnews.com/video/shorts/nbc-poll-finds-big-gender-divide-among-gen-z-247116357733

Epstein’s Birthday Book

https://www.pbs.org/newshour/nation/see-epsteins-full-birthday-book-with-alleged-personal-messages-from-trump-clinton-and-others

Meta’s Flirty AI Chatbot Invited a Retiree to New York. He Never Made It Home

https://www.reuters.com/investigates/special-report/meta-ai-chatbot-death/

📚 This Week’s Recommendation:

Stop Waiting For Your Hypothetical Husband

https://youtu.be/6CiOm04JNVc?si=J55QZuGauIuIB0Ns

Untamed by Glennon Doyle

https://www.amazon.com/Untamed-Glennon-Doyle-Melton/dp/1984801252

Women Who Run With The Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estés

https://tinyurl.com/3ncrc22k

Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimes

https://www.mahoganybooks.com/9781476777092?searchid=0&search_query=The+year+of+yes

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🕰️ Episode Chapters

00:00 Welcome & Tea Time!

04:17 Gen Z Gender Divide on Success

11:33 Epstein’s Birthday Book

15:36 Elderly Man Dies Trying To Cheat With Chatbot

22:46 Why Women Lose Themselves in Relationships

31:10 Reframing Women's Roles and Personal Success

43:55 The Career-Driven Woman

48:00 Sacrificing for Others: The Patriarchal Script

54:49 The Impact of Gender Expectations

01:03:09 Living Life on Your Own Terms

01:10:11 Therapy Or The Void: Sex & The City

01:33:14 Poll Results: Passport Bros

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.

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