April 20, 2026

Yes, It IS ALL Men

1 hour 47 minutes

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign take on one of the most predictable deflections in modern gender discourse.

“It’s not all men.”

According to who?

Together, they break down why this argument falls apart under even the slightest scrutiny, examining the full spectrum of male behavior from overt violence to passive complicity. The hosts explore how even “good men” benefit from, uphold, or ignore systems that consistently harm women, and why minimizing that reality only protects the problem.

They unpack the social conditioning that allows harmful behavior to persist, the role of male defensiveness in shutting down accountability, and why women are forced to navigate a world where safety is never guaranteed. This conversation is not about individual exceptions. It is about patterns, systems, and the lived reality women are responding to.

But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign discuss a disturbing trend in Brazil involving men training for violent responses to rejection, react to the rise of AI replacing human workers in fast food, break down the implications of the automatic U.S. military draft taking effect this year, and cover reactions to Justin Bieber’s Coachella performance and Aubrey Plaza’s pregnancy news.

Later, in Therapy Or The Void, they review the men featured in Louis Theroux’s Manosphere documentary and decide exactly where they belong.

🎧 This episode is a direct confrontation with the systems and behaviors that shape women’s daily reality and why dismissing them only makes things worse.

🎙️ Topics Discussed:

• “Not all men” and the spectrum of male behavior

• Violence, safety, and women’s lived experiences

• Male complicity and passive participation in misogyny

• Defensive reactions and the avoidance of accountability

• Social conditioning, patriarchy, and normalized harm

• Why systemic issues require collective responsibility

✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:

Stabbed For Saying No: Is Online Misogyny Fueling Violence In Brazil?

https://www.barrons.com/news/stabbed-for-saying-no-is-online-misogyny-fueling-violence-in-brazil-98c7955f

Women are being abandoned by their partners on hiking trails. What’s behind ‘alpine divorce’?

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/ng-interactive/2026/mar/17/alpine-divorce-abandoned-hiking-trail

Robots Cook Your Burger?

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTkUdsFvv/

OpenAI closes Sora video-making app and cancels $1bn Disney deal

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c3w3e467ewqo

Automatic military draft registration takes effect in December

https://www.cnn.com/2026/04/09/politics/us-military-draft-registration-2026

Justin Bieber’s Coachella Performance

https://slate.com/culture/2026/04/justin-bieber-coachella-2026-performance-set.html?pay=1776196715975&support_journalism=please

Aubrey Plaza Speaks Out About Her Pregnancy for the First Time

https://people.com/aubrey-plaza-speaks-out-about-her-pregnancy-for-the-first-time-11948450

Women Did Just Fine Doing “Men’s” Work

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8gDJydY/

📚 This Week’s Recommendation:

The power to dismantle patriarchy starts with NO

https://www.tiktok.com/@kristen1942/video/7625690305525763342

It’s Not “All Men”

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8gCBNRn/

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🕰️ Episode Chapters:

00:00 Welcome and Tea Time

03:56 Violence Trend in Brazil

11:40 AI Replacing Fast Food Workers

21:11 The US Military Draft

24:34 Justin Bieber Coachella Performance

26:59 Aubrey Plaza Pregnancy Reaction

31:08 It Is All Men

40:21 Women’s Safety and Reporting

52:53 Why Men Get Defensive

01:01:55 Patriarchy and Social Consequences

01:12:50 Escalation of Harmful Mindsets

01:20:20 Addressing Misconceptions

01:27:30 Therapy Or The Void

01:44:30 Poll Results

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.

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