You’re gonna want to put your big girl panties on for this one, girlfriend. Bianca Olthoff, author is Play With Fire and How to Have Your Life Not Suck, is challenging ya in all the best ways today. If you’ve ever had a hard time knowing the line between vanity and maintenance when it comes to appearance, are a little tired of the participation trophy culture we live in, or have a conflict you know you need a little courage to confront, this is the episode you can’t afford to miss.