Inside The Mind Of An Addict

You're Not Crazy: You're Living With Crazy-Making


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Why You Feel Confused After Talking to Someone in Addiction

Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your addicted loved one feeling more confused than when you started?

You replay the discussion in your head.
You question your memory.
You wonder if you overreacted.
You start thinking maybe you are the problem.

That disorientation isn’t you losing your mind.

It’s something called crazy-making — and it’s incredibly common in homes affected by addiction.

In this episode, we unpack what crazy-making actually is and why it happens. You’ll learn how addiction-fueled denial creates distorted conversations that leave you doubting your reality and second-guessing your instincts.

We break down the three most common patterns:

  • Reality Distortion – When facts get minimized, rewritten, or denied entirely

  • Emotional Inversion – When your legitimate concerns get flipped back onto you

  • Manufactured Doubt – When subtle tactics make you question your memory and judgment

    You’ll also hear why you can’t logic your way out of these conversations — and what actually works instead.

    Most importantly, you’ll walk away with three concrete anchors to protect your sanity, ground yourself in reality, and respond strategically rather than emotionally.

    This isn’t about villainizing your loved one. It’s about understanding the dynamics at play so you can stop doubting yourself and start approaching the situation with clarity and strength.

    If you’re tired of feeling spun around after every conversation, this episode will help you name what’s happening — and take your footing back.

    Denial Breakthrough Challenge: https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/motivation-unlocked-challenge

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    Inside The Mind Of An AddictBy Amber Hollingsworth

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