Hey guys,

This episode is for the people who have slowly found themselves emotionally positioning their whole life around somebody else’s uncertainty.

Waiting for the text.

Waiting for consistency.

Waiting for clarity.

Waiting for him to decide.

And before you know it, years can disappear living in emotional anticipation instead of reality.

In this episode, I break down what really happens when you become emotionally organized around an emotionally unavailable man — the nervous-system waiting, the emotional monitoring, the self-abandonment, and the slow erosion of your own identity while trying to be chosen.

Because sometimes you’re not actually in a relationship.

You’re in waiting mode.

And that changes everything.

And as always, if this resonates with you and you’d like to work with me one-on-one, you can reach out to me through Instagram @sallykalan.