The Widow Podcast

004 You Are Not a Burden as a Widow


Listen Later

Whether real, imagined, or received from interactions with people in their lives, grieving widows often feel like a burden to those around them. When internalised repeatedly, these messages can cause people to conclude that their physical and emotional needs are invalid. Yes, our grief is our responsibility. Yes, we have to take responsibility for our grief because nobody's coming to save us. But that doesn't mean we have to do it alone. In fact we can’t do it alone, we cannot heal in isolation.

In today's episode, we discuss how widows can reframe that feeling of being a burden to others after losing a loved one. We'll also go through unique ways you can use to ask for help without sounding overly needy. 

What You'll Learn:

  • How to accept that you are not a burden as a widow
  • What carrying the weight of widowhood means for you and those around you
  • Your grief is your responsibility
  • It's okay to reach out for help during mourning
  • How to become more comfortable asking for help
  • Why carrying grief doesn't always get easier
  • How to acknowledge that you are worthy of support during grief
  • Why you don't have to go through grief alone
  • Remember, people want to help, and those who genuinely care about you don't see you as a burden. You have a burden; a burden that is too heavy to carry on your own.

    Resources:

    • Join my Free Facebook Group ‘Widowed and Rising’ https://www.facebook.com/groups/widowedandrising 
    • Find me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/karensuttonwidowcoach 
    • Find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/karensuttonwidowcoach/ 
    • TikTok http://www.tiktok.com/@karensuttonwidowcoach 
    • Twitter https://twitter.com/KarenWidow 
    • LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/karensuttonwidowcoach/ 
    • YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNgKpAqSpEdQV2zYJIPaHvg 
    • My website https://www.karensutton.co.uk/ 
    • ...more
      View all episodesView all episodes
      Download on the App Store

      The Widow PodcastBy Karen Sutton

      • 4.9
      • 4.9
      • 4.9
      • 4.9
      • 4.9

      4.9

      142 ratings


      More shows like The Widow Podcast

      View all
      Up First from NPR by NPR

      Up First from NPR

      56,962 Listeners

      Age Better with Liz Earle by Liz Earle

      Age Better with Liz Earle

      238 Listeners

      On Purpose with Jay Shetty by iHeartPodcasts

      On Purpose with Jay Shetty

      27,569 Listeners

      The Dr Louise Newson Podcast by Dr Louise Newson

      The Dr Louise Newson Podcast

      262 Listeners

      The Widowed Mom Podcast by Krista St-Germain

      The Widowed Mom Podcast

      690 Listeners

      Widow We Do Now? by Anita and Mel

      Widow We Do Now?

      347 Listeners

      SmartLess by Jason Bateman, Sean Hayes, Will Arnett

      SmartLess

      58,475 Listeners

      Widow 180 The Podcast with Jen Zwinck by Jen Zwinck

      Widow 180 The Podcast with Jen Zwinck

      85 Listeners

      ZOE Science & Nutrition by ZOE

      ZOE Science & Nutrition

      2,152 Listeners

      Therapy and Theology by Lysa TerKeurst

      Therapy and Theology

      2,098 Listeners

      All There Is with Anderson Cooper by CNN Podcasts

      All There Is with Anderson Cooper

      10,653 Listeners

      The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

      The Mel Robbins Podcast

      20,306 Listeners

      The Widow's Walk by Dr. Connie Mariano

      The Widow's Walk

      27 Listeners

      The Oprah Podcast by Harpo

      The Oprah Podcast

      1,908 Listeners

      Good Hang with Amy Poehler by The Ringer

      Good Hang with Amy Poehler

      12,351 Listeners