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大家好!欢迎来到《00后大师》的第十期。本期我们想就奥斯卡入围电影《过往人生》,来聊一聊情感关系中,“依恋”背后的需求。
Hello everyone! Welcome to the 10th episode of "Masters of 00s". In this episode, we'd like to delve into the emotional dynamics and needs behind "attachment" through the lens of the Oscar-nominated film "Past Lives".
电影由韩裔加拿大导演席琳宋执导,于2023年上映。讲述了一对韩国青梅竹马在分别后两次再度短暂的交遇。女主Nora在全家移民加拿大的数年后,重新联系上了曾经有好感的儿时玩伴海盛。两人通过网络保持了一段时间的密切联系,随后断联。几年后Nora偶遇了同为剧作家的犹太人Author亚瑟,两人结婚。数年后,海盛以度假为由远赴纽约,只为再见Nora一面。从此,Nora平静的生活再度掀起涟漪。
Directed by Korean-Canadian filmmaker Celine Song, the film was released in 2023. It tells the story of two childhood friends from South Korea who reconnect briefly after being separated. Nora, the female lead, re-establishes contact with her childhood crush Haesung after several years of her family immigrating to Canada. They maintain a close connection online for a while before losing touch. Years later, Nora, now married to Jewish playwright Arthur, unexpectedly encounters Haesung, who travels to New York on holiday just to see her. From then on, Nora's peaceful life is once again disrupted.
电影向观众提出了一个问题:在个人成长和变化的过程中,过去的经历究竟意味着什么?当我们超越最初定义我们的背景和语境,重新审视过去时,我们会有何感悟?作为身在异国他乡的留学生,我们不得不一直在原生文化和新生文化中,寻找某种归属感。
The film poses a question: what does the past mean in the process of personal growth and transformation? As international students living abroad, we constantly navigate between our native culture and the new one, searching for a sense of belonging.
“也许是这一世有缘无份吧”——影片用了“因缘”这一浪漫的表达。当我们在时间的某处回望,也许会遗憾,也许已经释怀,也许只是微微一笑。过去像永存在记忆中绵长的思念,带着心底最深处的羁绊与牵挂,汹涌而来足以让人失重,随后却白茫茫一片,剩下的只是明天的生活——正如女主Nora在电影中所说——“眼下的一切就是答案了。”
"Perhaps it's destined for this life to be without fate" - the film uses the romantic expression of "fate" to suggest that when we look back at a certain point in time, we may feel regret, we may have already let go, or we may just smile lightly. The past, like a long-lasting memory, brings with it the deepest bonds and concerns, enough to make one feel weightless, yet afterwards, there's only the blankness of tomorrow's life - as Nora says in the film, "everything now is the answer."
*感谢酒渍的橄榄,感谢特邀嘉宾。
*Special thanks to the Tipsy Olive, and Special Guest.