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đŻ Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkitâa short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.
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In this episode, weâre exploring one of the most overlooked habits in marriage: micro repairs. These are the small, intentional moments of ownership and reconnection that keep little cuts from becoming big wounds. Youâll learn why big fights rarely start big, how small disconnections quietly erode trust, and how repairing in the moment can strengthen your marriage far more than any grand apology ever could.
Through real examples from men in Better Husband Academy, Angelo breaks down what micro repairs look like in daily life, why most men avoid them, and how learning to repairâand receive repairsâcan completely shift the atmosphere of your marriage.
đ What Youâll Learn in This Episode:
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Why most big fights start with small, unrepaired moments
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What a âmicro repairâ actually looks like in real life
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The stories men tell themselves that keep them from repairing
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How to build daily habits that make repair second nature
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Why receiving your wifeâs repairs is just as important as making your own
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How consistent micro repairs protect your marriage from long-term erosion
đĄ Key Takeaway:
Most marriages donât fall apart in one catastrophic momentâthey erode under the weight of a thousand small, unrepaired disconnections. Practicing micro repairs daily keeps those cracks from spreading. Every small repair is a moment of leadership, a signal that your marriage matters too much to leave small wounds untended.
đ¨ Action Steps This Week:
1⣠Do a daily check-in. At the end of each day, ask yourself, âDid I do or say anything that created distance?â If yes, make a small repair before bed.
2⣠Shorten your repair time. Track how long it takes you to circle back. If itâs days, aim for hours. If itâs hours, aim for minutes. The goal is real-time repair.
3⣠Make one physical bid for connection. A touch on the arm, reaching for a hand, a hugâthese gestures can repair as powerfully as words.
4⣠Work on receiving her repairs. When she circles back, donât grade the quality of her apology. Let it land. Say thank you. Step back into connection.
đ§ Reflection Questions:
â Where do I most often create small disconnections without repairing them?
â What story or excuse do I use that keeps me from repairing sooner?
â How open am I when my wife tries to repair with meâdo I let it land or hold back?
â What would it look like if I made repair a daily leadership habit instead of an occasional one?
Ready to Take Action?
đ¨ Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop â BetterHusbandSecrets.com
Questions?
đŠ Email Me â [email protected]
By Angelo Santiago5
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đŻ Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkitâa short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.
-
In this episode, weâre exploring one of the most overlooked habits in marriage: micro repairs. These are the small, intentional moments of ownership and reconnection that keep little cuts from becoming big wounds. Youâll learn why big fights rarely start big, how small disconnections quietly erode trust, and how repairing in the moment can strengthen your marriage far more than any grand apology ever could.
Through real examples from men in Better Husband Academy, Angelo breaks down what micro repairs look like in daily life, why most men avoid them, and how learning to repairâand receive repairsâcan completely shift the atmosphere of your marriage.
đ What Youâll Learn in This Episode:
â
Why most big fights start with small, unrepaired moments
â
What a âmicro repairâ actually looks like in real life
â
The stories men tell themselves that keep them from repairing
â
How to build daily habits that make repair second nature
â
Why receiving your wifeâs repairs is just as important as making your own
â
How consistent micro repairs protect your marriage from long-term erosion
đĄ Key Takeaway:
Most marriages donât fall apart in one catastrophic momentâthey erode under the weight of a thousand small, unrepaired disconnections. Practicing micro repairs daily keeps those cracks from spreading. Every small repair is a moment of leadership, a signal that your marriage matters too much to leave small wounds untended.
đ¨ Action Steps This Week:
1⣠Do a daily check-in. At the end of each day, ask yourself, âDid I do or say anything that created distance?â If yes, make a small repair before bed.
2⣠Shorten your repair time. Track how long it takes you to circle back. If itâs days, aim for hours. If itâs hours, aim for minutes. The goal is real-time repair.
3⣠Make one physical bid for connection. A touch on the arm, reaching for a hand, a hugâthese gestures can repair as powerfully as words.
4⣠Work on receiving her repairs. When she circles back, donât grade the quality of her apology. Let it land. Say thank you. Step back into connection.
đ§ Reflection Questions:
â Where do I most often create small disconnections without repairing them?
â What story or excuse do I use that keeps me from repairing sooner?
â How open am I when my wife tries to repair with meâdo I let it land or hold back?
â What would it look like if I made repair a daily leadership habit instead of an occasional one?
Ready to Take Action?
đ¨ Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop â BetterHusbandSecrets.com
Questions?
đŠ Email Me â [email protected]

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