Self Directed

116: Jacob Nordby | Rethinking Freedom: Purpose, Ritual, and the Value of Being


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In this conversation with author and speaker Jacob Nordby, we explore the paradox of freedom in modern life. Is it simply doing whatever we want—or does real freedom require something deeper?

While many consider freedom to be about doing whatever they want without constraints, Jacob challenges this perception. "A lot of people assume that freedom means the ability to do whatever they want," he reflects, "but we're learning that most of what we think and believe happens pretty unconsciously." True freedom, it seems, requires the difficult work of self-awareness and introspection.

Jacob challenges common ideas about success, self-determination, and meaning. Together, we dive into how societal norms shape our values, why unpaid or “unproductive” work (like parenting or crafting) is deeply meaningful, and how rituals in everyday life can reconnect us to purpose. Jacob shares tools for navigating difficult times and reclaiming inner freedom.

“The great victory isn’t avoiding difficulty—it’s knowing we can respond with resilience.”


🎁 Get Jacob’s free journaling tools at https://instituteforcreativeliving.org/creative-self-journal-program 

🔗 Connect with Jacob Nordby
Website: https://www.jacobnordby.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jacobnordby
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/author.jacobnordby
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacobnordby/ 


📚 Books mentioned: 
Man's Search for Meaning – Viktor Frankl
Braiding Sweetgrass – Robin Wall Kimmerer
Modern Man in Search of a Soul  – Carl Jung
Prometheus Rising – Robert Anton Wilson

🗓️ Recorded April 16th, 2025. 📍Vienna, Austria

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