I Said What I Said

121. The Ultimatum Season 3 Ep7-10: Abstinence, betrayal and redemption arcs


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Phew! I discuss Ep7-10 couple by couple and unpack the prevalent themes:


  • emotional detachment
  • people pleasing
  • how trauma impacts romantic relationships 
  • Sex before marriage, feeling betrayed by the Church
  • Lying to create power imbalances and to manipulate


References: 


All about Love - bell hooks


people pleasing episodes 

  • https://open.spotify.com/episode/5YEnUjuQ0gDrr3nTU7Kc0n?si=2e719cd327104e24
  • https://open.spotify.com/episode/20gvsf2PFGGiBtjdwV5f9p?si=0c88a1f343fe42d2 


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