Bobo's Void

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Today we have two dilemmas: a man who loves his girlfriend so deeply and so genuinely that he cannot stop cheating on her. and a woman who feels absolutely nothing for her man — and yet shows up in the most loving ways every single day anyway.

we asked who the better partner is. the answer will bother you.
Bobo also gave the women listening a masterclass in how to be less of a clown. you're welcome.

featuring bell hooks, antisocial personality disorder, the inflation of male attention, and the uncomfortable conclusion that we are all much closer to sociopaths than we'd like to believe.

let us know ur thoughts down below - would you (or have you) ever dated a sociopath?

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okay so your 20s are for making mistakes and your 30s are for finally understanding them. In this episode, we break down the real curriculum of adulthood: failed timelines, collapsing friendships, capitalism, confusion, fuckboys and the shocking discovery that stability, is in fact, hot.
think of this as a practical guide to surviving the two hardest decades of your life, for people who were promised "finding yourself" but mostly found stress lol.
let us know in the comment section below how you are surviving these times!

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in this episode, Bobo finally admits that she does, in fact, have adhd. we talk about what adhd actually is (not just “getting bored easily”), the three types, how it shows up in daily life (especially if you’re the inattentive type like me) and how it plays out in relationships.
but most importantly, we unpack the pressing question: does adhd make you a bad partner?

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romantic love? made up. monogamy? propaganda. childhood innocence? invented by rich people with too much free time.
see, you think you're sad because you're broken, but maybe you're just trapped inside a bunch of fake stories that were made up thousands of years ago.
in this episode, we pull apart the myths we live inside and ask the poignant question: who wrote these scripts and why are we allowing them to ruin our lives? let's unravel.

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this week, we talk about why friendships get messy so quickly - and why you’re no longer (and could never possibly still be) friends with your high school bestie. we get into the politics of hotness and the myth of the equal friendship. plus: why friend groups are basically just soft dictatorships dressed up as sisterhoods.
i also ask the question: what actually is a good friend? (and how do you know when you’ve become the villain in your own group chat?)
let us know your thoughts down below!

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This week we ask the unthinkable: what if rich kids have it worse? We explore why happiness might actually belong to the broke, the middle class, and anyone still naïve enough to hope.

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in this episode, we discuss transhumanism! (because apparently being human wasn’t hard enough).
Also: critiques of immortality, a post-capitalist reimagining, and a brief crisis about Jeff & Elon owning our souls.

Trump’s tariffs tanked the economy. AI is coming for your job. Capitalism is coughing blood. So we did the only logical thing: gave up and started painting.

In this episode, we talk about surrender, art, tariffs, religion and the weird mental clarity that comes when you stop trying to win a game designed to kill you.

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Episode Summary:
This week, we’re diving into one of humanity’s most time-honored traditions: cheating.

Inspired by White Lotus Season 2 (aka HBO’s sun-drenched study in rich people being horny and morally bankrupt), we ask: Why do people cheat? Is it unresolved childhood trauma? Is monogamy just a doomed social experiment? Or are we all just over-intellectualized apes in Zara button-downs?

But maybe the darker question is: why do people stay after they’ve been cheated on? Is it resilience… or just fear of dying alone with 16 tabs of Pornhub open and no one to split the Wi-Fi bill with?

We talk divorce shame, dating app dread, and whether “fighting for love” is noble—or just a well-marketed denial spiral.

Let us know if this one triggered you. (It triggered us.)

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Picture this: You’ve spent hours cleaning your place, cooking food, and setting up a dinner table with the cute little candles and the tablecloth u got from the vintage store in paris, only to get that dreaded text "Hey, so sorry, I’m not going to make it tonight." Or worse, no text at all.

Welcome to the era of canceled plans, where ‘yes’ doesn’t mean yes, ‘maybe’ rarely leads to ‘I’m in,’ and commitment is apparently a burden that no one owes to anyone?

But why? Why are we so quick to bail on each other? Is it because we’re all secretly drowning in social anxiety? Is it because everyone feels so unimportant that canceling is nbd? Is it because ur therapist convinced u to cancel plans to "protect ur peace"? Or is it something deeper: A symptom of a culture that’s lost its sense of obligation, where relationships feel more disposable than ever?

are u plan canceler or are u a good person? lmao let us know in the comments down below!