In this episode, we’re unpacking Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) - It’s the “the second it becomes a have to, my brain says hell no” feeling, you might experience… 

I can decide myself to clean the kitchen & feel fine. But if my partner asks me, suddenly it’s a whole thing!

We’ll chat about:

• What PDA is & how it’s driven by anxiety & a need for autonomy, not laziness or being difficult.
• How PDA can show up in adults with ADHD, from ignoring texts to melting down over “simple” tasks
• Why your nervous system treats everyday demands like threats, even when they’re self-care or fun
• The key difference between PDA & ODD (and how the why behind behaviour matters)
• 3 Practical ways to make demands feel smaller & safer, increase your sense of choice,& support your nervous system instead of bullying yourself into action

If you’ve ever wondered, “Why do I fight even the things I want to do?”, this episode is for you my friend.

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