In this episode, Jo sits down with psychotherapist Niki Grennell to explore what happens when the connection in a long-term relationship starts to fade beneath the weight of responsibility and everyday life. If you've ever felt more like flatmates than partners, this conversation will help you understand why—and what you can do about it.

In this episode, we explore:

• The difference between sex and intimacy—and why intimacy often disappears first

• Why personal growth can either strengthen or create friction in midlife relationships

• The three layers of connection: with yourself, your partner as they are now, and your shared future

• How to know whether to stay and work on things—or when it's time to leave

• Simple, compassionate ways to begin shifting a relationship from one side

If this topic has been quietly weighing on you, this episode offers a grounded, compassionate place to start thinking it through.

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