The Best of You

174: TikTok Therapy Trends, Overprotective Parenting, and Raising Resilient Kids with Trey Tucker


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In this episode, Dr. Alison is joined by counselor and podcast host Trey Tucker for an honest conversation about the rise of therapy culture online, the pitfalls of over-identifying with a diagnosis, and how parents can help kids build resilience instead of anxiety.


Together, they unpack:

  • The rise of “TikTok Therapy”—what’s helpful about therapy content online and where it falls short.
  • Why so many people are tempted to define themselves by a diagnosis—and how that can keep us stuck.
  • The difference between true boundaries and emotional avoidance.
  • Parenting without panic: how to model calm presence instead of passing anxiety on to the next generation.
  • Why resilience, not fragility, is one of the greatest gifts we can offer our kids.
  • Alison and Trey bring different perspectives with a shared passion for nuance, honesty, and practical hope. It’s a refreshing, thought-provoking dialogue that will encourage you to think differently about therapy, identity, and how we show up in family life.


    📚 Learn more about Trey’s work at www.ruggedcounseling.com.


    📥For more in-depth listening, check out his podcast, Rugged with Trey Tucker and follow him on Instagram or TikTok @ruggedcounseling.📥 Grab your 3 free Boundaries For Your Soul resources here 

    📥 Download Alison’s free printable with the five boundary tools when you sign up for her weekly email.


    Here are some other episodes you might like :

    Episode 41: Boundaries With Fear And Anxiety—How to Calm the Chaos Within and the Joy of Internal Boundaries

    Episode 65:Vulnerability, Parenting, and Letting Go of Control—Inside A Guy’s Perspective With Our Friends From Dadville

    Episode 66:  The Truth About Anxiety & How to Become a Worry Free Parent with Sissy Goff


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