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174: Toddler Survival Guide: The Most Common Challenges Parents Face and the Best Techniques to Handle Them


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Toddlerhood is often described as a rollercoaster, which, as a mother to two myself, I can see why. Riding those emotional highs and lows can be a lot, but luckily, if you're also riding the waves, you’re not alone. From epic meltdowns over the “wrong” snack to power struggles over everything from bedtime to toothbrushing, it’s a season filled with big feelings (from both the kids and the parents!). That's why we're excited about this episode of Chick Chat. I’m chatting with Laura Amies, also known as Nanny Amies, all about surviving toddlerhood.

Who is Laura Amies?

Laura Amies – aka Nanny Amies – has worked with hundreds of children across her 20-year career, both in nurseries and as a private nanny, and was the TV expert "toddler tamer" for Channel Five’s 'Toddlers Behaving (Very) Badly'. Laura has been supporting parents for the past 20 years. Offering a heartfelt approach to childcare and development within nurseries, schools, playgroups, family homes, and hotels worldwide. When it comes to children’s behavior, she believes there’s really nothing that she hasn’t seen.

What Did We Discuss?

In this episode, Laura and I chick-chat about all things toddlerhood. She shares what’s really behind common toddler behaviors, how to support your child through big emotions, and the best strategies to not just survive but thrive through raising your toddler. Whether you're in the thick of tantrums or just gearing up for this stage, this conversation will leave you feeling more informed, confident, and supported. Here are several of the questions that we covered in our conversation:

  • Can you please share with us the most common challenges parents face during toddlerhood?
  • How can parents best navigate these challenges?
  • What are some common mistakes parents make when dealing with toddler tantrums, and how can they handle these situations more effectively?
  • We’ve all heard people describe toddlerhood as the "terrible twos," the “threenager” stage and even the “fournados.” What are your thoughts when you hear these terms, and do you believe they are truly as terrible as people say?
  • Emotional regulation is a huge milestone for children. How can we parents help our toddlers navigate big emotions like frustration, anger, or sadness? 
  • What do you see as the most pivotal moments of toddler development? 
  • What advice would you give to a first-time parent who’s about to experience the challenges of toddlerhood?
  • Toddlerhood doesn’t have to feel like a battlefield. As Laura reminded us, these challenging moments are opportunities for connection, learning, and growth — for our children and for us as parents. With the right tools, realistic expectations, and a little perspective, you can feel more in control and less overwhelmed.

    If you’re navigating the toddler trenches right now, I hope this episode reassures you that what you’re experiencing is normal and that you’re not alone. Laura’s wisdom is a gift, and I’m so grateful she shared her practical, heartfelt strategies with us. Be sure to share this episode with a fellow parent who could use a little extra support during this season. We’re all in this together!

    Laura's Resources
    • Website: lauranannyamies.co.uk
    • Instagram: @nannyamies
    • TikTok: @nannyamies
    • Facebook: @nannyamies
    • Book: The Toddler Survival Guide
    • Thank you for listening to our podcast. Cheers to surviving toddlerhood!

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