Monique expects Pablo to pay for her “as the man” in the relationship. Pablo wants “fairness” in a partner.

Last week, I dug into their money psychology. Right at the end of last week’s conversation -- when both were feeling good -- they started discussing an upcoming trip to Mexico City. Suddenly, everything fell apart.

All their positive feelings and new skills got thrown to the side, and they went right back to their old habits.

That’s why I had to add a part two to our conversation. That’s today’s episode.

When they’re discussing the trip, Monique already has her argument ready before Pablo finishes a sentence. Pablo’s fists are clenched. He wants to be the laid-back, confident guy Monique fell in love with, but his views on money have changed. You’ll hear him describe “Antonio,” his scarcity-minded alter ego.

This conversation surprised me in so many ways. Listen in.

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