At 26, Henry Brayshaw was drowning in hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt from his gambling addiction.

Gambling had felt normal since childhood. Some of his earliest memories were placing bets on the Melbourne Cup and slipping into the TAB. What started as something familiar slowly became uncontrollable.

As the debt piled up, so did the shame. He self-harmed and isolated himself in a dark room for days.The turning point wasn’t dramatic. It was honest. He told his best friend at the time, Annie, and that was the moment he stopped running.

Now, he urges anyone struggling to register with BetStop, Australia’s national self-exclusion scheme. Register yourself with BetStop HERE

Follow Henry on Instagram: @henry.brayshaw

Trigger warning: This episode discusses childhood sexual abuse in detail.

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