Think Fast Talk Smart: Communication Techniques

210. First Impression to Lasting Impact: Use Status Strategically


Listen Later

Career success takes a status boost, not a power grab.


How do you chart the career course you’ve always imagined? According to Alison Fragale, it’s about gaining influence through status, power, and ultimately, being “a likeable badass.”

As a research psychologist, professor, speaker, and author, Fragale is on a mission to help women take control of their careers. In her book Likeable Badass: How Women Get the Success They Deserve, she argues that most people have it backwards when pursuing career advancement. "We have talked for a long time [about] getting more power," she explains. However, by focusing first on achieving status (how respected we are), power will often come as a natural byproduct. "If you pursue status before, or at least alongside power, everything is going to fall into place," she says. “Status makes power a lot easier to achieve, and it makes power a lot easier to use.”

In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, hosted by executive producer Jenny Luna, Fragale explores the communication strategies of a likeable badass, from building warmth and assertiveness to authentically connecting with colleagues. Whether you're building relationships in a new company or have been leading one for years, Fragale’s insights will help you command respect while communicating with kindness.

To listen to the extended Deep Thinks version of this episode, please visit FasterSmarter.io/premium

Episode Reference Links:

  • Alison Fragale
  • Alison’s Book: Likeable Badass
  • Jenny Luna
  • Ep.12 It's Not What You Say, It’s How You Say It: How To Communicate Power
  • Ep.15 The Art of Negotiation: How to Get More of What You Want  

Connect:

  • Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart Premium
  • Email Questions & Feedback >>> [email protected]
  • Episode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart Website
  • Newsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.io
  • Think Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTube
  • Matt Abrahams >>> LinkedIn


Chapters:

  • (00:00) - Introduction
  • (02:58) - Defining Power and Status
  • (06:03) - Why Status Comes Before Power
  • (06:56) - Communication Techniques to Build Status
  • (10:04) - Evaluating Your Habits: Nonverbal and Verbal Cues
  • (11:58) - Mentorship in Developing Communication
  • (13:50) - Adapting to a New Work Culture
  • (19:18) - Representing Difference Without Distance
  • (20:26) - Overcoming Bad First Impressions
  • (24:12) - The Final Three Question
  • (27:57) - Conclusion

  •    *****
    This episode is brought to you by Babbel. Think Fast Talk Smart listeners can get started on your language learning journey today- visit Babbel.com/Thinkfast and get up to 55% off your Babbel subscription.

    Support Think Fast Talk Smart by joining TFTS Premium.       

    ...more
    View all episodesView all episodes
    Download on the App Store

    Think Fast Talk Smart: Communication TechniquesBy Matt Abrahams, Think Fast Talk Smart

    • 4.7
    • 4.7
    • 4.7
    • 4.7
    • 4.7

    4.7

    667 ratings


    More shows like Think Fast Talk Smart: Communication Techniques

    View all
    HBR IdeaCast by Harvard Business Review

    HBR IdeaCast

    1,830 Listeners

    TED Talks Daily by TED

    TED Talks Daily

    11,135 Listeners

    The Look & Sound of Leadership by Essential Communications - Tom Henschel

    The Look & Sound of Leadership

    1,155 Listeners

    The McKinsey Podcast by McKinsey & Company

    The McKinsey Podcast

    381 Listeners

    Coaching for Leaders by Dave Stachowiak

    Coaching for Leaders

    1,460 Listeners

    TED Business by TED

    TED Business

    1,121 Listeners

    Cold Call by HBR Presents / Brian Kenny

    Cold Call

    194 Listeners

    Women at Work by Harvard Business Review

    Women at Work

    1,402 Listeners

    After Hours by TED Audio Collective / Youngme Moon, Mihir Desai, & Felix Oberholzer-Gee

    After Hours

    1,251 Listeners

    HBS Managing the Future of Work by Harvard Business School

    HBS Managing the Future of Work

    108 Listeners

    How to Be a Better Human by TED

    How to Be a Better Human

    1,370 Listeners

    Coaching Real Leaders by Harvard Business Review / Muriel Wilkins

    Coaching Real Leaders

    652 Listeners

    The So What from BCG by Boston Consulting Group BCG

    The So What from BCG

    221 Listeners

    HBR On Strategy by Harvard Business Review

    HBR On Strategy

    84 Listeners

    HBR On Leadership by Harvard Business Review

    HBR On Leadership

    151 Listeners