Show Notes:
In this conversation, certified life coach and parenting expert Crystal Haitsma reveals how subconscious shame shapes our reactions to our kids—and how to break free. Drawing from her experience raising four neurodiverse kids while traveling the world, Crystal shares practical strategies to identify emotional triggers, heal inner wounds, and cultivate calm even in chaos. Learn why traditional behavior-focused parenting advice often fails, and how addressing your own hidden beliefs can transform your family. Perfect for parents craving deeper connection, less guilt, and tools to rewrite generational patterns.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
 
ALL LINKS → <a href='https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy'>https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy</a> 
Website →<a href='https://fulfillmenttherapy.org'> https://fulfillmenttherapy.org</a>
Contact → <a href='mailto:hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org'>hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org</a> 
Instagram →<a href='https://www.instagram.com/fulfillmenttherapy/'> @fulfillmenttherapy</a> 
Facebook Community →<a href='http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy'> http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy</a> 
Facebook Group → <a href='https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100088460742483'>Private FB Group</a> 
Schedule 1:1 Coaching →<a href='https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching'> https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching</a> 
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests
 
Crystal’s Info: 
www.coachcrystal.ca
Insagram: the.parenting.coach
Podcast: The Parenting Coach Podcast

Show Notes: In this conversation, certified life coach and parenting expert Crystal Haitsma reveals how subconscious shame shapes our reactions to our kids—and how to break free. Drawing from her experience raising four neurodiverse kids while traveling the world, Crystal shares practical strategies to identify emotional triggers, heal inner wounds, and cultivate calm even in chaos. Learn why traditional behavior-focused parenting advice often fails, and how addressing your own hidden beliefs can transform your family. Perfect for parents craving deeper connection, less guilt, and tools to rewrite generational patterns. Enjoy! -Kendra ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org Contact → hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy Facebook Group → Private FB Group Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests Crystal’s Info: www.coachcrystal.ca Insagram: the.parenting.coach Podcast: The Parenting Coach Podcast

Show Notes:
In this conversation, certified life coach and parenting expert Crystal Haitsma reveals how subconscious shame shapes our reactions to our kids—and how to break free. Drawing from her experience raising four neurodiverse kids while traveling the world, Crystal shares practical strategies to identify emotional triggers, heal inner wounds, and cultivate calm even in chaos. Learn why traditional behavior-focused parenting advice often fails, and how addressing your own hidden beliefs can transform your family. Perfect for parents craving deeper connection, less guilt, and tools to rewrite generational patterns.
Enjoy!
-Kendra
&nbsp;
ALL LINKS → <a href="https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy</a>&nbsp;
Website →<a href="https://fulfillmenttherapy.org" rel="noopener noreferrer"> https://fulfillmenttherapy.org</a>
Contact → <a href="mailto:hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org" rel="noopener noreferrer">hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org</a>&nbsp;
Instagram →<a href="https://www.instagram.com/fulfillmenttherapy/" rel="noopener noreferrer"> @fulfillmenttherapy</a>&nbsp;
Facebook Community →<a href="http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy" rel="noopener noreferrer"> http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy</a>&nbsp;
Facebook Group → <a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100088460742483" rel="noopener noreferrer">Private FB Group</a>&nbsp;
Schedule 1:1 Coaching →<a href="https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching" rel="noopener noreferrer"> https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching</a>&nbsp;
Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions &amp; topic requests
&nbsp;
Crystal’s Info: 
www.coachcrystal.ca
Insagram: the.parenting.coach
Podcast: The Parenting Coach Podcast

210 | Why Your Kid’s Meltdowns Might Be About Your Unhealed Shame, with Crystal Haitsma

Hey, Parents! Welcome to Fulfillment Therapy, your space for healing and personal growth, where you can nurture yourselves to enrich your family life. We know the drill - you’re constantly on the hunt for ways to be the best parent and spouse, but it often feels like there’s barely a moment to catch your breath. Balancing your duties, connecting with your kids, and tackling stress can leave you feeling completely exhausted. Mornings start with the best of intentions, but somehow, they often unravel into a whirlwind of arguments with everyone heading in different directions by the day’s end. It’s a stressful cycle, and it’s clear that something is missing. I’m Kendra, a mother and therapist who’s been there before. I’ve learned that to be the best parent you can be, you must prioritize self-care. When you stop ignoring and neglecting your own needs and well-being, you’ll find that you have more energy and less resentment to offer your family. In our relentless pursuit of being super parents, we often forget about the importance of self development and maintaining good mental health, which can lead to anxiety and depression. Balancing the responsibilities of family life while nurturing your personal growth can be difficult. However, it’s essential to become the best version of yourself to be the best parent and spouse. Fulfillment Therapy is about more than just refining your parenting skills; it’s about unlocking your full potential. It’s about rediscovering your values and faith, and creating a safe haven for both you and your family to flourish. In this podcast, we’ll learn tips on reducing stress, overwhelm, and depression, while showing you how to take better care of yourself without neglecting your family and core values. You’ll discover how to advocate for yourself--without shame--and how to nurture your individual worth in sustainable, healthy ways. By replenishing your own cup and meeting your own unmet needs, you can provide more for your family and, most importantly, yourself. We’ll work toward a life where peace, confidence, and a reduced guilt become the norm. You’ll soon discover that your dream of a balanced, joyful life will become your daily reality. It’s time to model healthy self-care, and tap into your unique gifts and talents to make family life more fulfilling than you ever imagined possible. https://fulfillmenttherapy.org Connect → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.com Facebook → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/fulfillmenttherapy/

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Hey, Parents! Welcome to Fulfillment Therapy, your space for healing and personal growth, where you can nurture yourselves to enrich your family life.We know the drill - you’re constantly on the hunt for ways to be the best parent and spouse, but it often feels like there’s barely a moment to catch your breath. Balancing your duties, connecting with your kids, and tackling stress can leave you feeling completely exhausted. Mornings start with the best of intentions, but somehow, they often unravel into a whirlwind of arguments with everyone heading in different directions by the day’s end. It’s a stressful cycle, and it’s clear that something is missing.I’m Kendra, a mother and therapist who’s been there before. I’ve learned that to be the best parent you can be, you must prioritize self-care. When you stop ignoring and neglecting your own needs and well-being, you’ll find that you have more energy and less resentment to offer your family. In our relentless pursuit of being super parents, we often forget about the importance of self development and maintaining good mental health, which can lead to anxiety and depression.Balancing the responsibilities of family life while nurturing your personal growth can be difficult. However, it’s essential to become the best version of yourself to be the best parent and spouse. Fulfillment Therapy is about more than just refining your parenting skills; it’s about unlocking your full potential. It’s about rediscovering your values and faith, and creating a safe haven for both you and your family to flourish.In this podcast, we’ll learn tips on reducing stress, overwhelm, and depression, while showing you how to take better care of yourself without neglecting your family and core values. You’ll discover how to advocate for yourself--without shame--and how to nurture your individual worth in sustainable, healthy ways. By replenishing your own cup and meeting your own unmet needs, you can provide more for your family and, most importantly, yourself. We’ll work toward a life where peace, confidence, and a reduced guilt become the norm. You’ll soon discover that your dream of a balanced, joyful life will become your daily reality. It’s time to model healthy self-care, and tap into your unique gifts and talents to make family life more fulfilling than you ever imagined possible.https://fulfillmenttherapy.orgConnect → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.comFacebook → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/fulfillmenttherapy/

Hey, Parents! Welcome to Fulfillment Therapy, your space for healing and personal growth, where you can nurture yourselves to enrich your family life. We know the drill - you’re constantly on the hunt for ways to be the best parent and spouse, but it often feels like there’s barely a moment to catch your breath. Balancing your duties, connecting with your kids, and tackling stress can leave you feeling completely exhausted. Mornings start with the best of intentions, but somehow, they often unravel into a whirlwind of arguments with everyone heading in different directions by the day’s end. It’s a stressful cycle, and it’s clear that something is missing. I’m Kendra, a mother and therapist who’s been there before. I’ve learned that to be the best parent you can be, you must prioritize self-care. When you stop ignoring and neglecting your own needs and well-being, you’ll find that you have more energy and less resentment to offer your family. In our relentless pursuit of being super parents, we often forget about the importance of self development and maintaining good mental health, which can lead to anxiety and depression. Balancing the responsibilities of family life while nurturing your personal growth can be difficult. However, it’s essential to become the best version of yourself to be the best parent and spouse. Fulfillment Therapy is about more than just refining your parenting skills; it’s about unlocking your full potential. It’s about rediscovering your values and faith, and creating a safe haven for both you and your family to flourish. In this podcast, we’ll learn tips on reducing stress, overwhelm, and depression, while showing you how to take better care of yourself without neglecting your family and core values. You’ll discover how to advocate for yourself--without shame--and how to nurture your individual worth in sustainable, healthy ways. By replenishing your own cup and meeting your own unmet needs, you can provide more for your family and, most importantly, yourself. We’ll work toward a life where peace, confidence, and a reduced guilt become the norm. You’ll soon discover that your dream of a balanced, joyful life will become your daily reality. It’s time to model healthy self-care, and tap into your unique gifts and talents to make family life more fulfilling than you ever imagined possible. https://fulfillmenttherapy.org Connect → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.com Facebook → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/fulfillmenttherapy/

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