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In this transformative episode, Dara introduces "The Golden Pen" - a powerful tool for rewriting the stories that keep us stuck in cycles of self-sabotage and weight regain.
The Golden Pen Process:
Step 1 - Raw Writing: Write out your current story without judgment. Let all the victim language flow onto paper.
Step 2 - Curious Questioning: Why might others behave the way they do? Is there any truth worth examining in criticism? How would different people interpret this situation?
Step 3 - Intentional Rewriting: Consciously choose how you want to think about your circumstances, putting yourself back in the driver's seat of your life.
Main Takeaways:
✒️Everything is a story - and you get to choose which version serves you best
✒️You always get the last word because it's your life and your interpretation
✒️Perspective is power - changing how you see situations changes how you respond to them
✒️Success must be self-created - following someone else's plan won't create lasting change
Perfect for: Women who feel like victims of their circumstances, anyone stuck in repetitive self-sabotage patterns, and those ready to take ownership of their transformation journey.
Ready for more? Check out all my webinars happening in October! You don't want to miss them
And...the Quilter's Life Summit returns this fall, October 21-23, 2025! With 30 presenters, prizes and exclusive offers, you won't want to miss this event. Sign up now - Quilter's Life Summit
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By Dara Tomasson4.7
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In this transformative episode, Dara introduces "The Golden Pen" - a powerful tool for rewriting the stories that keep us stuck in cycles of self-sabotage and weight regain.
The Golden Pen Process:
Step 1 - Raw Writing: Write out your current story without judgment. Let all the victim language flow onto paper.
Step 2 - Curious Questioning: Why might others behave the way they do? Is there any truth worth examining in criticism? How would different people interpret this situation?
Step 3 - Intentional Rewriting: Consciously choose how you want to think about your circumstances, putting yourself back in the driver's seat of your life.
Main Takeaways:
✒️Everything is a story - and you get to choose which version serves you best
✒️You always get the last word because it's your life and your interpretation
✒️Perspective is power - changing how you see situations changes how you respond to them
✒️Success must be self-created - following someone else's plan won't create lasting change
Perfect for: Women who feel like victims of their circumstances, anyone stuck in repetitive self-sabotage patterns, and those ready to take ownership of their transformation journey.
Ready for more? Check out all my webinars happening in October! You don't want to miss them
And...the Quilter's Life Summit returns this fall, October 21-23, 2025! With 30 presenters, prizes and exclusive offers, you won't want to miss this event. Sign up now - Quilter's Life Summit
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