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In this episode, I'm breaking down something every pregnant mama needs to know: you always have a choice when it comes to your birth care, no matter where you're planning to deliver. We're diving deep into informed consent and informed refusal—your fundamental rights that don't disappear just because you walk into a hospital or birth center.

Too often, I see birth educators and doulas painting medical staff as the enemy, creating an "us versus them" mentality that honestly breaks my heart. The truth is, your birth team wants what's best for you and your baby. Interventions have their time and place, and sometimes wisdom means choosing something that wasn't in your original plan—and that's perfectly okay.

Whether you're planning a home birth, birth center delivery, or hospital birth, feeling overwhelmed by medical decisions, or simply wanting to feel more confident advocating for yourself—this episode will equip you with practical tools and biblical wisdom for navigating birth choices with peace and partnership.

In this episode, I share: 

🧠 The BRAIN method for making informed decisions (a framework I teach in my Online Christian Childbirth Education that works for any health decision) 

⚖️ What informed consent and informed refusal really mean—and why both matter 

🤝 How to work collaboratively with your birth team instead of against them 

🏥 Your rights in every birth setting: home, birth center, and hospital 

💭 Practical tips for advocating for yourself while building partnership 

✝️ How James 1:5 fits perfectly into wise decision-making during birth

Scripture Shared: 

"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him." – James 1:5 (ESV)

Mentioned in this episode: 

🎧 Episode 5 Creating Your Birth Preferences: A Step-by-Step Guide - A good overview of typical choices you’ll want to think through before birth

✨ Christian Mama Birth Prep Library - Free birth prep tools, worship playlists & more

✝️ Online Christian Childbirth Education - Explore my complete birth preparation self-paced course

💛 Work with Me 1:1 - Personalized pregnancy and birth support that integrates faith and evidence-based care, including virtual coaching, doula support, and comprehensive childbirth education

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Let's choose knowledge and collaboration over fear and opposition, one birth decision at a time. Go here for the full blog post, show notes, and all resources mentioned!

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