What happens when you stop trying to hate yourself into change and learn how to work with your mind instead? In this episode, I revisit a conversation with Cannon to talk about his journey from years of struggle with pornography and self-loathing to building a completely different relationship with himself. Cannon shares how the real breakthrough wasn’t just quitting porn, but learning that it was okay to struggle and beginning the long process of moving from self-hatred to self-love.

This conversation is a powerful reminder that overcoming pornography is about far more than stopping a behavior. It’s about changing the way you see yourself and what you believe is possible for your life. Cannon shares how letting go of shame and learning to trust the process allowed him to experience real freedom, and why the work you do to heal yourself can create ripple effects far beyond what you might imagine.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/new-way-control-sexual-urges

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