In today’s episode we talked about how "everyone's a bad choice.’ Everyone comes with flaws, baggage, and annoying habits — the trick is realizing love isn’t about finding perfection, it’s about choosing someone imperfect and choosing them again and again. We go through why we think this and would love to hear your thoughts too!

(00:00) why everyone is a bad choice to marry…  

(00:59) fan interaction of the day  

(02:12) jett the bull rider in the library  

(03:58) we’re bad choices to marry and what that means  

(05:55) phase 1 of marriage, the green phase  

(06:27) phase 2, the discovery phase  

(09:55) phase 3, the disappointment phase  

(12:24) phase 4, the rebuilding phase  

(14:37) phase 5, the deep love phase  

(18:25) phase 6, the legacy phase  

(21:04) the myth of the perfect person  

(24:16) “finessing the choice”  

(27:18) to know is to love  

(34:50) “you should be in the honeymoon always”  

(40:45) the trials of conflict and the power it has  

(42:27) what you fell in love with is what may tear you apart  

(46:50) love is extremely meaningful, maybe not magical  

(48:04) conflict leading to intimacy  

(51:21) you might as well try! DIG IN BABY!  

(53:26) forgive quickly and prioritize time  

(55:34) takeaways and reflections  

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