Have you ever graped yourself? What could Toni possibly mean by that? In this episode I talk about obligation sex, guilt sex, the culture of feeling like we owe someone access to our bodies. It happens in one night stands, relationships, marriages, in all sorts of dynamics. Let's get into it. Also COME SEE MY TRAGIC-COMEDY SHOW "GRAPE CULTURE" on tour now! Support the Patreon too! Come see my new stand up hour in NYC at Joe's pub! All the info is here! https://linktr.ee/toninagy