In this episode, I am sharing some thoughts about what happens when we have doubt in ourselves and how we immediately hit the replay button looking at and replaying our “failures”. Do we do the same and replay our wins? Maybe if we did we would see how much our biggest wins come right after our “failures”, or as I like to call them, learned lessons.

In today’s episode we discuss:

1) The energy behind replaying scenarios, situations, circumstances and the label we give to what we experienced, the failure, the weight of it, and the meaning of it.

2) When we have moments of doubt, this becomes our default as our ego is looking for all the proof of the mistakes we have made. This replaying then keeps us in this cycle of doubt and then we replay it even more. We have to choose to break the pattern by starting with awareness. What if the question or mindset shifts to, “I am exactly where I am supposed to be, so what am I here to learn?”

3) What if you replay your wins with the same energy and intention and in the process actually celebrate all of the things you have overcome and learned? How would your outlook change?

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Marsha Vanwynsberghe — Author, Speaker and Life Coach Marsha is the 6-time Bestselling Author of “When She Stopped Asking Why”. She shares her lessons as a parent who dealt with teen substance abuse far past the level of normal experimentation. Through her programs, coaching and live events for women, Marsha is on a mission to teach you how to “Own Your Choices” in your own life. She teaches women how to own their stories, lead themselves and pay it forward to others by creating businesses that serve, support and impact others.