Self-fulfilling prophecies – and falling into their trap – are part and parcel of being human. From ancient Greek tragedies to television like Breaking Bad, they've popped up time and time again. We just can't escape our flaw of telling ourselves stories about the future, and then making them reality.

But what if it… wasn't a flaw? What if there was a real power, a real gift in being about to tell yourself a story and see it through? You might know Steph Curry from his legacy at the Golden State Warriors, but would you believe he wasn't even scouted coming out of high school?

Our guest today is a big believer in turning the self-fulfilling prophecy stigma on its head. Nathan Tanner thought he finally had it all with a cushy investment gig at Lehman Brothers. The problem was, he joined up in 2008, right before Lehman went through the biggest bank collapse in history. To hear him say it, it would have been the easiest thing to write a personal story… of failure.

But since then, Nathan's worked through top positions at LinkedIn and DoorDash before settling into his own coaching practice. Today, he's out with a new book, suitably titled The Unconquerable Leader – Mastering the Internal and External Game. It's all about learning to show up for yourself so that you can properly show up for others.