Vulnerability and validation work together in our relationships to create intimacy and connection. When both people in a partnership are willing to step into both, we can create something magical. When one in the partnership is unwilling or unable to engage in either, it definitely creates a problem, but we can learn to have our own backs when we show up vulnerable and validate our own engagement. When both people are unwilling to step into vulnerability or validation, we have what I like to call a paper marriage, married on paper, but without partnership, without connection and intimacy and a higher sense of purpose in the relationship. If you're a person or a couple who really wants to create something extraordinary in your marriage, it's time to up the vulnerability and validation in your relationship.

Thanks for listening! Want to learn more about this concept? Check out these podcasts:

#29 Validation on Apple on Spotify

#268 Drama Response on Apple on Spotify

#284 Why Vulnerability Matters on Apple on Spotify

#289 Why Our Relationships Needs Validation on Apple on Spotify

#331 Sense of Self on Apple on Spotify

#332 Sense of Self – It's All In Your Head on Apple on Spotify

#333 Sense of Self and Dating on Apple on Spotify

#334 Sense of Self and Marriage on Apple on Spotify

#342 What Does Vulnerability Look Like? On Apple on Spotify

#344 Are You a Safe Place For Vulnerability on Apple on Spotify

#384 Relational Living on Apple on Spotify

#389 The Partnership of Marriage on Apple on Spotify

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