Today’s Question: My husband is texting another woman. They are meaningless text messages, so how should I handle this?

If they are truly meaningless then why are you asking the question? If they are truly meaningless, what makes you feel they are  meaningless?  Something does not sit right with you. What drove you to ask the question? Chances are the content was not alarming but something is concerning to you. Maybe the content was meaningless but maybe there is something that is going on between you and your husband. 

I feel you should communicate with your husband. You need to ask, “what is going on” to your husband. Then you need to be open about how these messages make you feel. Is it the fact that it is a private conversation with another woman? Is it that he hid them from you? Maybe the content was meaningless but his actions are meaningful and you will have to figure out why. Possibly, it feels like something is off… Maybe a breach of trust, maybe just feeling like maybe he needs something you are not providing. Here is where you will have to be vulnerable and ask the questions. 

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