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I’ve been asked this question twice this week: “What would you tell your 20-something self?” And I get why people ask. Those years are full of decisions, confusion, stretching, and becoming. Looking back, I can honestly say I’m proud of the life I’ve built—flawed, beautiful, and shaped deeply by grace. A lot of my growth came through my insecurities, fears, and missteps, but also through leaning into God’s presence and learning to trust His process over my own.
So here’s what I’d say if I could sit across from my younger self over coffee:
You’re exactly where you need to be.
Prioritize your secret place with God.
Stop doing so much. Learn how to just be.
God will exceed your expectations.
Tell the truth.
Your dreams will come to life.
Deal with the beliefs that are keeping you stuck.
Learn how to cook—and enjoy it.
Wear sunscreen.
Invest in your friendships.
If I could sum it all up: You don’t need to have it all figured out. Just keep showing up, keep telling the truth, stay grounded in who God is, and trust that the story unfolding is far more meaningful than the one you’re trying to control.
✨ The doors to Thrive close TODAY – and won’t open till FALL.
Thrive is my online membership community for women who are ready to stop surviving and start becoming. Use the code THRIVETODAY to get your first month completely free.
Join us at: www.comealivelifecoaching.com/thrive
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I’ve been asked this question twice this week: “What would you tell your 20-something self?” And I get why people ask. Those years are full of decisions, confusion, stretching, and becoming. Looking back, I can honestly say I’m proud of the life I’ve built—flawed, beautiful, and shaped deeply by grace. A lot of my growth came through my insecurities, fears, and missteps, but also through leaning into God’s presence and learning to trust His process over my own.
So here’s what I’d say if I could sit across from my younger self over coffee:
You’re exactly where you need to be.
Prioritize your secret place with God.
Stop doing so much. Learn how to just be.
God will exceed your expectations.
Tell the truth.
Your dreams will come to life.
Deal with the beliefs that are keeping you stuck.
Learn how to cook—and enjoy it.
Wear sunscreen.
Invest in your friendships.
If I could sum it all up: You don’t need to have it all figured out. Just keep showing up, keep telling the truth, stay grounded in who God is, and trust that the story unfolding is far more meaningful than the one you’re trying to control.
✨ The doors to Thrive close TODAY – and won’t open till FALL.
Thrive is my online membership community for women who are ready to stop surviving and start becoming. Use the code THRIVETODAY to get your first month completely free.
Join us at: www.comealivelifecoaching.com/thrive
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