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Introducing Vanessa Van Edwards: Stop Overthinking Every Social Interaction! (Use THESE Cues to Be Liked, Respected, and Build Confidence in Every Conversation) from On Purpose with Jay Shetty.
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What usually holds you back from starting a conversation?
Can you remember a time you avoided someone out of fear of saying the wrong thing?
Jay sits down with behavioral researcher and bestselling author Vanessa Van Edwards for a powerful conversation that blends science, honesty, and so many surprising moments. Vanessa, who refers to herself as a “recovering awkward person,” shares how her biggest social struggles became the driving force behind her mission to crack the code on human connection.
Together, Jay and Vanessa dive into the fascinating world of charisma, exploring the 97 cues, from eye contact to tone of voice, that quietly shape how we’re seen and understood. Vanessa breaks down why so many of us feel overlooked or underestimated—and introduces “signal amplification bias,” a concept that explains why the signals you think you’re sending might not be landing the way you expect. Vanessa shows us how confidence isn’t always something you’re born with but something you can build, with intention and awareness.
The conversation goes even deeper as they unpack the tricky balance between warmth and competence, especially for women in the workplace, and how vulnerability isn’t a weakness, but often your greatest strength. They explore how to create those magic “me too” moments that form instant connections, spot the hidden red flags in communication, and let go of the need to be liked by everyone in order to be truly seen by the right people.
In this interview, you'll learn:
How to Make a Great First Impression Without Saying a Word
How to Break the Ice with a Simple “Hey”
How to Balance Warmth and Competence in Any Conversation
How to Create Connection Using “Me Too” Moments
How to Exit a Conversation Gracefully (Without Offending Anyone)
How to Spot a Liar Using Body Language and Micro-Expressions
How to Ask Better Questions That Spark Real Conversations
How to Recognize the Difference Between Charisma and Manipulation
Whether you struggle with social anxiety, want to level up your leadership presence, or are just tired of surface-level small talk, this episode is packed with practical tools and uplifting wisdom to help you connect with more authenticity and power.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
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What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
00:51 From Awkward to Empowered: Overcoming Social Anxiety
02:43 How Do You Really Want People to See You?
06:44 Why Aren’t Your First Impressions Landing?
10:01 Why They’re Not Getting Your Signals (And What to Do About It)
13:33 Want to Be More Attractive? Try Being More Available
15:40 One Simple “Hey” That Can Spark a New Connection
19:16 Your Vibe Teaches People How to Treat You
22:06 Speak with Power: Unlock Your Full Vocal Power
23:47 3 Conversation Starters That Actually Work
29:49 Making Friends Doesn’t Have to Be Hard
31:17 Why Compliments Alone Don’t Build Connection
33:30 Break the Ice Without Sounding Like Everyone Else
38:36 Stop Trying to Be Interesting, Do This Instead
40:48 The Art of a Smooth and Respectful Exit
44:32 Use These Nonverbal Cues to Steer the Conversation
47:41 Spot Inauthentic Behavior Before It Costs You
54:28 Why People-Pleasing Feels Safer But Actually Holds You Back
57:48 How to Tell If Someone’s Lying (Without Saying a Word)
01:00:04 When Narcissists Feel Like the Most Charismatic People
01:03:46 Want to Really Get to Know Someone? Take a Road Trip
01:04:45 How Dopamine Makes You More Memorable
01:08:23 Every Answer Can Be a Gateway to Connection
01:10:51 How Asking Better Questions Inspires Growth
01:13:10 Discover Your Social Battery: Introvert, Extrovert, or Ambivert?
01:15:10 You Might Be an Ambivert and That’s a Superpower
01:19:07 The Two Ways Friendships Evolve Over Time
01:22:30 Choose Friends Who Inspire Awe
01:25:20 The Double Standard Faced by Highly Competent Women
01:33:09 Before You Make That Connection, Ask Yourself This
01:34:34 Life’s Too Short for Shallow Connections, Find Your People
01:36:29 Vanessa on Final Five
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Introducing Oprah and Mel Robbins on How to Calm Anxiety from The Oprah Podcast.
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Introducing Michelle Obama Opens Up: Her Struggle To Feel Like She's “Enough,” Mental Health in the White House & Lessons from Childhood w/ Craig Robinson from The School of Greatness.
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Michelle Obama and her brother Craig Robinson reveal how growing up in a tiny Chicago apartment shaped their values, outlook on life, and mental health today. From Craig "vetting" Barack Obama during a pickup basketball game to Michelle navigating the pressures of the White House, their conversation uncovers how family bonds grounded them through extraordinary circumstances. What makes this sibling dynamic special isn't just their impressive achievements but their authentic connection - Craig bringing lightness and joy while Michelle delivers wisdom and perspective. Their shared mental health belief that "home is about who's there, not where you are" resonates deeply as they explain how they raised confident children amid extreme privilege and spotlight by teaching them that success comes from character, not circumstance.
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Introducing The Piranha (PODCAST EXCLUSIVE EPISODE) from MrBallen Podcast: Strange, Dark & Mysterious Stories.
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In 2011, a police officer spotted a woman on a busy street in Japan, and he couldn’t believe what he was seeing. He looked at a photo on his phone, and then back at the woman, it was definitely her. He’d been tasked with finding this woman and bringing her back home, it was a pretty basic task, but he’d managed to complete it way faster than he thought he would. The officer rushed down the street, greeted the woman, and she confirmed she was the person he was looking for. He led her back to his car, drove her home, and that was that. But what the officer could not have possibly have imagined, was that locating this woman and bringing her home was about to unravel 25 years of unimaginable horrors – and lead to one of the most bizarre cases Japanese investigators had ever seen.
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Introducing Khloé Kardashian: My Side that Nobody Knows (Truth Behind Headlines, Divorce, Co-Parenting) from On Purpose with Jay Shetty.
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Have you ever been seen in a way that didn’t feel true to who you are?
Who do you feel truly sees you for who you are?
Today, Jay sits down once again with the incredible Khloé Kardashian to talk about growth, healing, and what it really means to evolve on your own terms. It’s been six years since Khloé first sat down with Jay, and a lot has changed. Now in her 40s, Khloé reflects on the defining moments of her 30s, the clarity she’s found in this new chapter, and how her journey has shaped the woman she is today
In this honest and heartfelt conversation, Khloé opens up about what it really took to move through heartbreak, public judgment, and her own self-doubt. She shares how she learned to forgive herself, let go of shame, and step into a deeper sense of self-awareness. Khloé talks about navigating the pressures around motherhood, relationships, and success — and how therapy, journaling, and her unwavering faith helped her rediscover her worth and inner peace.
Jay and Khloé also dive into what it looks like to slow down, make room for solitude, and intentionally choose joy. She offers a glimpse into her daily routines, the spiritual practices that ground her, and how she’s creating a loving, mindful environment for her children, one rooted not in perfection, but in presence and authenticity.
In this interview, you'll learn:
How to Set Emotional Boundaries Without Losing Your Kindness
How to Forgive Yourself and Heal from Past Mistakes
How to Use Solitude as a Tool for Self-Discovery
How to Stop Comparing Your Journey to Others
How to Build Emotional Resilience After Betrayal
How to Raise Emotionally Aware and Grounded Children
How to Find Peace Through Faith and Daily Rituals
Through her candid storytelling and unwavering humility, Khloé offers hope, wisdom, and an empowering message of self-acceptance to anyone navigating their own inner transformation.
With Love and Gratitude,
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What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
03:33 Aging Doesn’t Have to Be Scary
05:17 Visualizing Your Life in Your 40s
06:23 It’s Okay to Be Unsure
07:39 How Maturity Brings Stability
09:35 Why We’re Always Chasing More
12:09 The Truth About Success
13:55 Practice Self-Intentionality
16:42 Stop Letting Validation Control You
19:47 Balancing Accountability and Forgiveness
21:42 Learn to Be Patient with Yourself
23:10 Everyone Learns on Their Own Timeline
24:30 A Path to Self-Forgiveness
27:20 When You Might Be the Problem
29:24 You Are Not Your Mistakes
31:39 The Work Only You Can Do
36:00 Rewiring a Negative Mindset
38:18 Why Therapy Can Be Transformative
41:11 Finding the Courage to Trust Again
43:17 Getting Comfortable with Being Vulnerable
46:19 It’s Brave to Let Yourself Cry
48:28 Understanding Your Love Language
52:02 We All Love Differently
54:21 The Beauty of Giving Love
55:31 Reuniting with Lamar After 9 Years
59:51 Leaving What No Longer Serves You
01:03:46 Releasing Residual Negativity
01:05:15 Why We All Need Empathy
01:09:04 What I Want My Kids to Remember
01:11:35 Why Kids Don’t Need the Internet
01:14:24 Dating as a Mom in Your 40s
01:15:28 How to Date More Intentionally
01:17:31 Embracing Alone Time
01:19:05 Leaning Into the Discomfort
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