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In this episode I am sharing some thoughts on the in-between, the time in between where we are today and where we think we are supposed to be. 

In today’s episode we discuss:

1) The in-between is the most uncomfortable time, where we aren’t where we want to be yet, and we equate that to doing something wrong, not enough, or that we are on the wrong path.  There is power in the pause and this is the in-between space.  We are not yet who we want to be and have to grow into the version of the person who can hold and handle the next level of success, yet that person is inside of us, it is up to us to bring them to life. 2) This is the time we feel the most resistance, the most struggle and resistance recruits allies, thank you Steven Pressfield, and it shows up a lot like self-sabotage. The power of the pause. This is the time to become the identity that you are desiring to be.  Health, fitness, reader examples. To assume the identity is to become that version, what do you do, see, hear, feel if you have that identity.  Use this in-between time to anchor in the traits of this person. Bringing in your subconscious mind and not just consciously setting the goals. Goal getter vs goal setter 3) At the identity level,  the self-image, the ideas a person constructs about themselves and their behaviour, abilities and beliefs, mostly unconsciously. In this level of change it is our beliefs, our values that will shape our identity. 4) In this in-between we are learning more about ourselves, building on our non-strengths, learning what is required, and getting clear on what we do or don’t want.  It is a time of pause, but it is a required time of learning.  The more resistance we feel and feed on the longer we can stay in this in-between.  It requires surrender, trust, aligned action, belief.  This is where one small step or act of courage every day can move the needle forward to create results.  If you rush the in-between, or crowd more into this space, you create a temporary crash landing of more in between.  You might not know exactly where you are going, but you know that backwards isn’t an option. Join the OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification https://www.marshavanw.com/outspoken2023

Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster

Marsha is the 6-time Bestselling Author of “When She Stopped Asking Why”.  She shares her lessons as a parent who dealt with teen substance abuse that tore her family unit apart. Marsha has been published 7xs, most recently with her co-platform, Every Body Holds A Story, and she is on a mission to continue to help women and men to speak, share and publish their stories. 

Through her tools, OUTSPOKEN NLP certification, programs, coaching, and podcast, Marsha teaches the power of Radical Responsibility and Owning Your Choices in your own life.  She empowers people how to heal and own their stories, be conscious leaders and build platform businesses that create massive impact.