The Friendship Tour | How to Make Friends, Female Friendship, Adult Friendship, Friendship Advice

62 | Female Friendship Myth: People Don't Like Me Because I'm Honest


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Fact or Fiction: People Don't Like Me Because I'm Honest


We’ve all heard it: “People just don’t like me because I’m honest.” But is that really the case? In this episode of The Friendship Tour, I unpack the truth behind honesty in friendships—where it helps, where it hurts, and how to do it well.

I explore the difference between honesty and bluntness, and why the way we speak truth matters more than ever in today’s friendship dynamics. With humor, wisdom, and lived experience, I share practical tools for being honest with love—so that your truth can be heard and actually build stronger relationships, not break them.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

  • The difference between honesty and bluntness

  • Why how you say something is just as important as what you say

  • Key questions to ask yourself before "being honest"

  • The right time, right place, right tone principle

  • How to be a truth-teller and a good friend

    Take This With You:

    “Most people like honesty. Most people don’t like bluntness.”

    Listener Challenge:

    Before offering your honest thoughts, ask yourself:
    ☑️ Is it my business?
    ☑️ Is it important?
    ☑️ Has anyone asked for my input?
    ☑️ Am I trying to help—or just speak?
    ☑️ Am I speaking from love?

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