In this episode, I explore a topic that many of us can relate to: the feeling that despite our best efforts, nothing is working in our lives. I share insights from a recent conversation with a client, as well as my own experiences, to explore the question: What do you do when it feels like everything is happening but nothing is happening?

I begin by encouraging listeners to clarify what they mean when they say, "Nothing is working." Is it a lack of progress or the absence of desired results? I emphasize the importance of specificity in our goals and definitions of success.

Next, I discuss the significance of defining success on your own terms. I share my mantra that as my business grows, my relationships and health also thrive. This holistic view of success is essential for maintaining balance and fulfillment in life.

I also touch on the concept of controlling the controllables. It’s easy to get overwhelmed by everything that seems to be going wrong, but we can regain a sense of agency and direction by identifying what we can control and focusing on those aspects. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Introduction: When It Feels Like Nothing is Working 00:01:00 - Defining Success: What Does It Mean to You? 00:02:30 - Shifting Your Mindset: Focus on What is Working 00:04:00 - Leading Yourself: Daily Actions Towards Your Goals 00:05:30 - Energy Management: Where is Your Focus? 00:06:30 - Consumption and Boundaries: What Are You Taking In? 00:07:30 - Controlling the Controllables: Focus on What You Can Change 00:09:00 - Trusting the Process: Evidence from the Past 00:10:30 - Conclusion: You Are Supported and Encouraged

 

Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster

Download FREE “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE 

Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) HERE

Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program HERE. Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20

Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.comConnect on IG click HERESubscribe on YouTube click HERE