The Art of We

94. How To Prioritize Your Sex Life (And Why You Must)


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Is your sex life taking a back seat due to a busy schedule? Tune in to discover how and why to prioritize physical intimacy, with our personal tips and tricks to keep it at the top of your to-do list. We'll also share the psychological, physical, and emotional benefits of prioritizing your sex life, especially for mission-driven couples. Plus, hear about our relationship agreement that keeps us on track!

“The Art Of We” podcast with Krista Van Derveer and Dr. Will Van Derveer.

(00:00) - Prioritizing your sex life & defining “sex life”

(02:04) - The key mindset for success for regular physical intimacy

(03:49) - Our relationship agreement about our sexuality 

(05:21) - Psychological and physiological effects of lacking physical intimacy

(09:17) - The correlation between orgasm, creativity, and cognitive capacity

(15:09) - How to prioritize sex life for busy couples

(16:38) - Importance of prioritizing sex life for a mission-driven relationship

(18:53) - Aligning with your partner

(23:49) - The impact of attachment styles on sexual intimacy

(25:28) - Scheduling as a tool to manage life phases and hormonal differences

(27:24) - Importance of understanding and addressing different needs within a relationship

(29:22) - Addressing concerns when a partner doesn't prioritize sex life

Feel free to reach out with your thoughts, experiences, and topics you want to hear about. We love hearing from our listeners!

Resources Mentioned: 

  • Our Top 10 Relationship Agreements 
  • Episode 91: Great Relationship But No Chemistry?

Get in Touch: 

  • The Art Of We Website
  • The Art of We Instagram 
  • Integrative Psychiatry Institute: Psychedelic Therapy Training

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