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97: In Defense of Video Games (for parents of gamers) with Derrick Hoard, LMFT

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We are back for Part 2 of a fascinating discussion with Derrick Hoard, a licensed marriage and family therapist, TikTokker, and video game aficionado. We left off in last week’s episode talking about how some people rely too heavily on gaming for their coping skills in life and how “mindful gaming” can go beyond simply pushing buttons and help in many ways. The conflict over video games extends beyond partner relationships and definitely leads to challenges for parents and their kids. Let’s explore this topic with Derrick!


Show Highlights:

  • Myths and misconceptions about video games from a parent’s perspective
  • Being mindful means using as many of the five senses as possible and being purposeful.
  • Video games can lead to emotional connection, learning, and many problem-solving skills.
  • Derrick’s perspective on gamers who play a variety of games: good or bad?
  • Thoughts on the benefits of games like Skyrim and Mass Effect
  • The value of a collaborative approach by parents who get involved in a child’s gaming life respectfully and appropriately
  • The benefits of video games for neurodivergent kids, overall mental health, and therapeutic approaches
  • The key for parents of gamers: accepting video games as ways to promote mindfulness, deep conversations, true interest, growth, skill development, curiosity, and maturity


    • Resources and Links:

    Connect with Derrick Hoard: Website, TikTok, and the Mindful Gaming Podcast

    Connect with KC: Website, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook

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