Everyone talks about love, so what in the world could I say about love that hasn’t already been said thousands of time and much more eloquently? I find talking about love is pretty easy, but putting it into practice can be quite challenging.

Love is such an abused word that it almost becomes meaningless in today’s culture. But when we understand the Bible’s definition of love, it becomes quite a challenge. If you and I are going to be the kind of lovers the Bible says we should be, we’ll need some help in knowing how to practice love. That’s my goal.

I’ve prepared a two-week plan to help you and me learn to practice love by the Bible’s definition. The truth is, if you’re not intentional about putting God’s principles into practice, they just remain words on the pages of your Bible. They don’t become transformational in your life. That’s why I often use specific plans, in writing, to keep me on track and help me do what I really want to do.

This two-week plan is based on 1 Corinthians 13, which gives us very explicit and practical instruction on just what it means to love. It has very little to do with our emotions, but it has everything to do with our attitudes and our actions. This plan will help you focus on one thing at a time—one characteristic of real love each day—and give you ideas on how to implement them in your life.

The Apostle Paul prayed for the believers in Ephesus that they would be “rooted and established in love.” In John 13, Jesus says to his disciples,

A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another (John 13:34-35).

I think it’s so interesting Jesus says this is a new command; loving one another wasn’t required under the Law but under the New Covenant, under grace, we have a new commandment, and it is to love as we have been loved by Jesus.

I invite you to join me in this two-week plan to practice love. It’s important we take this love thing seriously, and if you will join me in learning to practice love, I think it will be transformational for you and me.