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In the School of the Holy Spirit Part 1: Introduction and Chapter One

In this episode we begin our 3 week book study on In the School of the Holy Spirit by Fr. Jacques Philippe. We talk about how holiness is not something to be gained by human effort, rather it is a complete surrender to the work of the Holy Spirit in us. We also discuss how we should seek to love God with our whole heart because He is good, not because of what we want Him to give us in return.

Sister Miriam's one thing - good old-fashioned thunderstorms!

Michelle's one thing - a Father's Day gift guide (see below!), mainly the new Bible from Word on Fire: the beauty, the commentary, the art!

Heather's one thing - The show This Is Us, and musician Sarah Kroger.

Additional Resources

Michelle's Father's Day Gift Guide

Books for Dad:

• Lift Up Your Heart: A 10-Day Personal Retreat with St. Francis de Sales by Father John Burns
• Consecration to St. Joseph: The Wonders of Our Spiritual Father (paperback) by Fr Donald Calloway
• The Word on Fire Bible (releases June 15) - Click here for more information

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Book Study

Join this Summer Book Study! We're spending the next few episodes with In the School of the Holy Spirit by Fr. Jacques Philippe.

This book is going to help you to be more attentive to the movements of the Holy Spirit in your life as you learn to value the third person of the Trinity as the Sanctifier of your soul. Fr. Jacques explains the rewards of being attentive to the Holy Spirit and provides simple and concrete ways to grow in this inner sensitivity. In his clear and simple style, he illustrates his points with many examples from modern life. In the School of the Holy Spirit is a valuable aid in your own spiritual journey.

We will begin today and go till June 15, but you can do this at any time that suits your schedule; maybe in the middle of the summer or in the future works best for you.

We will have questions available for you on our website as well as hearty discussions in our private facebook group, which you are welcome to join.

We hope you will grab your copy of In the School of the Holy Spirit and join us. You can buy a hard copy or kindle version on Amazon (Amazon US) (Amazon Canada) (Amazon UK), or check your local Catholic book store.

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Get your copy today and follow along with us.

Reading Schedule:June 1st - Introduction & Chapter OneJune 8th - Chapter TwoJune 15th - Chapter Three, Conclusion, and Appendices

Discussion questions:

1. What struck you from the podcast?
2. What excites you about learning to live in the School of the Holy Spirit?
3. How have you approached holiness? Have you seen it as something to be achieved or received as a gift?
4. Where do you feel the tension between Kingdom living and the messages of the world?
5. Who has been an example to you of what it looks like to live in the school of the Holy Spirit?

Journal Questions:

1. Reflect and journal about this scripture: Luke 6:38. What does it speak to you personally?
2. Where do you feel you are in your desire for the Holy Spirit: do you "want it", or do you "want to want it"?
3. Spend some time asking the Lord how you can love Him more purely and to hear what he says to you.
4. Where can you take the next step toward openness and surrender to the Holy Spirit?

Quote to Ponder - God is very generous and does not refuse His grace to anyone. He gives even more than we ask for. The shortest road is faithfulness to the inspirations of the Holy Spirit. - St. Faustina's Diary

Scripture for Lectio Divina - Luke 6:38 "Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap; for the measure you give will be the measure you get back."

The Fruit of the Holy Spirit

In this episode we prepare for Pentecost by discussing the importance of the fruits of the Holy Spirit being manifest in our life. A life in the Spirit must go beyond an experience of spiritual consolation and move to an openness to the refiner's fire that will burn away all that is not holy. God promised that He would always be with us and sent the Holy Spirit to be our counselor, advocate, and life giver. We are invited to open wide the doors to the Holy Spirit in a new way this Pentecost.

Sister Miriam's one thing - the song Better than a Hallelujah by Amy Grant

Michelle's one thing - Fr. Josh Johnson's podcast on the Rosary and racial reconciliation.

Heather's one thing - the show Songland

Additional Resources:Michelle's booklist on racial reconciliation

Join our Summer Book Study! We're spending June with In the School of the Holy Spirit by Fr. Jacques Philippe! Get your copy today and follow along with us. (Amazon US) (Amazon Canada) (Amazon UK)

Reading Schedule: June 1st - Introduction & Chapter One June 8th - Chapter Two June 15th - Chapter Three, Conclusion, and Appendices

Discussion questions:

1. What struck you from the podcast?
2. How would you describe your relationship with Holy Spirit?
3. Where have you felt yourself be "reawakened" lately? Where do you desire an awakening?
4. Where have you seen God bring light out of darkness?
5. What makes it harder or easier to hear the whisper of the Holy Spirit?

Journal Questions:

1. Reflect and journal about this scripture: Galatians 5:22-23. What does it speak to you personally?
2. Where do you need to invite the Holy Spirit into a specific situation in your life??
3. Consider the Refiner's Fire. Where is the Holy Spirit trying to burn away what is not holy in your life? How are you responding?
4. What kind of fruits are you growing?

Quote to Ponder - "The Holy Spirit, making life alive, moving in all things, root of all created being, cleansing the cosmos of every impurity, effacing guilt, anointing wounds. You are lustrous and praiseworthy life, You waken and reawaken everything that is." - St. Hildegard of Bingen

Scripture for Lectio Divina -

The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. - Galatians 5:22-23

The Power of Christian Unity

In this episode we have the pleasure of chatting with our dear friend Matt Maher! As a devout Catholic in the world of Christian music industry, Matt shares his heart for unity and God's desire that we would all be one. Matt also talks about his marriage and how he and his wife do life together as a Catholic and Methodist. We also discuss practical steps of how to be a bridge builder with people of other faiths and the gift of the sacraments.

Sister Miriam's one thing - The litany The Magnificat with Mary from the Sisters of Life

Michelle's one thing - The Sanctifier (Amazon US, Amazon Canada, Amazon UK) by Archbishop Luis Martinez, and my husband Chris

Heather's one thing - The podcast Restore the Glory from my husband Jake and Dr. Bob Schuchts, and the song Promises from Maverick City

Matt's one thing - The Consecration to St. Joseph by Fr. Donald Calloway (Amazon US, Amazon Canada, Amazon UK) and the Holy Family as a whole.

Additional Resources: Michelle also mentions the book retreat Under the Gaze of the Father by Archbishop Luis Martinez (Amazon US, Amazon Canada, Amazon UK)

Discussion questions:

1. What struck you from the podcast?
2. What blessings and displays of God's glory have you seen?
3. What is a moment you've had of awareness of God's presence?
4. Do you experience a sense of entitlement when it comes to faith?
5. How can you pray and work in your own life to build unity?

Journal Questions:

1. Reflect and journal about this scripture: John 17: 20-24. What does it speak to you personally?
2. What is your reaction to this call for Christian unity?
3. Are there relationships in your life that require reconciliation? How can you contribute to unity?
4. Are you playing a role in Christ reconciling the Church, or how are you playing a role in the Church being more divided?

Quote to Ponder - "Christian unity was Christ's dearest desire. He expressed it in his last testament as he walked toward his tragic destiny: the Cross. He prayed in his priestly prayer 'that they may all be one; even as you, Father, are in me, and I in you, that they also may be in us, so that the world may believe that you have sent me.'" (John 17:21) - Cardinal Nasrallah Pierre Sfeir (Cardinal's Symposium - October 2003)

Scripture for Lectio Divina - John 17: 20-24

"I ask not only on behalf of these, but also on behalf of those who will believe in me through their word, that they may all be one. As you, Father, are in me and I am in you, may they also be in us, so that the world may believe that you have sent me. The glory that you have given me I have given them, so that they may be one, as we are one, I in them and you in me, that they may become completely one, so that the world may know that you have sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me. Father, I desire that those also, whom you have given me, may be with me where I am, to see my glory, which you have given me because you loved me before the foundation of the world."

Things We Learned From Our Moms

In this episode we honour Mother's Day and talk about some essential things we learned from our mothers. We discuss what they have taught us about joy and suffering, and how they revealed the face of God to us. We also chat about how God wants to heal and restore broken relationships with our mothers.

Sister Miriam's one thing - Esther Marie Angel! Congratulations to Jackie and Bobby!

Michelle's one thing - The Given Forum is doing a 4-day Online Conference! Discover the Gift, June 10-14th

Heather's one thing - Salmon Wellington, so you can have one, simple, awesome-looking meal!

Ingredients:

1 package puff pastry, softened to room temperature1 salmon fillet no skin, bones removed (I get mine from Costco)salt & pepper to tasteFresh lemon juiceOptional fresh dill1 egg, beaten

Instructions:

Preheat oven to 425

Rinse salmon and pat dry.

Lightly flour a large cutting board bigger than the salmon.

Roll out the puff pastry wide enough that it will cover both sides of the salmon. (Or use puff pastry sheets)

Place the salmon in the middle of the pastry (the best side facing down) and season both sides with salt and pepper (optional dill) and squeeze fresh lemon juice over one side of the salmon.

Fold the edges of the puff pastry over the salmon starting with the longer sides and gently press together to seal. Trim any excess pastry from the ends, then fold the ends on top of the salmon. Flip the puff pastry-wrapped salmon over and transfer for a baking sheet lined with parchment paper if you have it.

Brush the beaten egg on the top and sides of the pastry. If you feel fancy, score the top of the pastry with a knife, cutting shallow diagonal lines to create a crosshatch pattern, but do not cut through. You need the pastry to be sealed with no holes if possible.

Brush the top again with the egg wash.

Place on middle rack of the oven.

Bake for 20-25 minutes, until pastry is golden brown.

I love to make this with a warm lemon dill sauce on the side, roasted potatoes and a Greek salad.

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Discussion questions:

1. What struck you from the podcast?
2. What have you learned from your mother that you are grateful for?
3. How has your mother taught you to suffer or handle sorrowful things?
4. What has your mother revealed to you about the face of God?
5. Who are other people in your life who have shown you Motherhood?

Journal Questions:

1. Reflect and journal about this scripture: Proverbs 31:30-31 What does it speak to you personally?
2. How well do you honor your mother?
3. In the places where your mother has not revealed the face of God to you, what is the truth of who God is?
4. Are there places in your relationship with your mother that need to be restored?

Quote to Ponder - "Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you." Exodus 20:12

Scripture for Lectio Divina - Proverbs 31:30-31

Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.Honor her for all that her hands have done,and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

Seized by Beauty (with Bishop Robert Barron)

In this episode, we have the distinct pleasure of having Bishop Robert Barron as our guest. We talk about everything from how he takes his coffee to experiences of beauty that lift us beyond the natural to a transcendent encounter with God. We also discuss how to engage with the culture and extract what is good, true, and beautiful, so that we can not only relate, but be relevant in our mission of evangelization.

Sister Miriam's one thing - Friends of the Bridegroom: For a Renewed Vision of Priestly Celibacy by Marc Cardinal Oullet (Amazon US, Amazon Canada, Amazon UK) Michelle's one thing - St. Catherine of Siena: The Mystic by Fr. Paul Murray (Amazon US, Amazon Canada, Amazon UK), and the NFL draft. One of my favorite players went #7 in the draft - Derrick Brown, Auburn Heather's one thing - My dear parents and having them move in next door.

Bishop Barron's one thing - The ESPN documentary on the Chicago Bulls: The Last Dance

Additional Resources:

Civilisation - Kenneth Clark (Amazon US, Amazon Canada, Amazon UK)

Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man - James Joyce (Amazon US, Amazon Canada, Amazon UK)

Meeting with Artists - Pope Benedict XVI

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Discussion questions:

1. What struck you from the podcast?
2. What is your first memory of encountering beauty?
3. Share some experiences of beauty you've encountered in the culture!
4. What secular movie scene made you think about the Christian life or God?
5. What are you most passionate about right now?

Journal Questions:

1. Reflect and journal about this scripture: Ecclesiastes 3:11 "He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end." What does it speak to you personally?
2. How can you make time each day to pause and look for beauty?
3. What are some things you find beautiful? What do they teach you about Who God is?

Quote to Ponder - The truly beautiful doesn't submit to our little whims and our little preferences. The truly beautiful stops you in your tracks and seizes you and takes control of you and doesn't let you go. - Bishop Robert Barron Scripture for Lectio Divina - Ecclesiastes 3:11 "He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end."

Living in the Light of Victory (with Fr. Justin Brady)

In this episode we have brought back special guest Fr. Justin Brady to talk about how to live in the victory of the resurrection. Fr. Justin is a priest and exorcist and shares some wonderful insights into how to live from a place of friendship with God and find victory in our relationship with Jesus as friend and savior. We also discuss aligning our hearts with the truth of who we are in light of God's merciful love.

Sister Miriam's one thing - The garden

Michelle's one thing - Beautiful weather! (and walks)

Heather's one thing - The best sticky buns ever.

These sticky buns are amazing! The recipe is from our local bakery Duft and Co. It's a commitment of time, but so worth it. Would love to see a photo of these in our facebook group if you make them.

Here are photos from when my son made them.

To watch the tutorial click here.

For the dough

3 3/4 cup Flour2 tsp Salt1/2 tsp Baking Powder1/2 tsp Baking Soda1/2 cup Sugar2 Eggs1 cup Milk1/4 cup Vegetable Oil1/2 cup Butter (soft)1 tsp Vanilla Extract1 pkg (8g) Active Dry Yeast2 tbsp Water2 tbsp SugarA greased 9x13 glass baking dish

Mix dry yeast, 2 tbsp of sugar and 2 tbsp of lukewarm water in a small bowl. Let sit to bloom for 10 minutes.

Using your stand mixer and dough hook, mix all dry ingredients until combined, then add all of the remaining ingredients including the yeast mixture.

Mix on medium speed for 7 minutes, and a smooth dough forms.

Put your dough in an oiled bowl and cover with cling film or a tea towel, and leave to proof for 1 - 2 hours (until doubled in size) in a warm area.

After it has risen, make your caramel.

Sticky Bun Caramel (goes in the bottom of the glass baking dish before the rolls go in)

3 tbsp Cream1 cup Brown Sugar1/4 cup Butter1/4 cup Maple SyrupSalt to taste

Bring all ingredients to a boil over medium heat.

Boil for 2 minutes while stirring continuously. After 2 minutes, remove from heat and allow to cool slightly before using.

Then pour into the bottom of your glass baking dish(I added a bunch of chopped pecans after pouring in the caramel - yum!)

Sticky Bun Filling (goes on top of the dough before you roll it)

1/3 cup Butter (melted and cooled slightly)1/2 cup Sugar3/4 cup Brown SugarCinnamon to taste

After the dough has risen, place it on a lightly floured large cutting board or counter. It's pretty soft dough, so add a bit of flour on top. Roll it out with a rolling pin into a rectangle, about 3/4inch thick. approximately 2 hands high x 3 hands wide. Pour melted/cooled butter over the dough completely. Keep the top inch with only butter for sealing the roll later. Sprinkle white sugar over it all, then the brown sugar, then sprinkle very generously with cinnamon and press it down gently all over.

Start rolling the dough along the long side, the buttered inch should be at the top and rolled last. Roll it tightly, by pulling the dough slightly toward you as you roll. Get a serrated knife and cut the ends off, not needed. Cut the roll dough in half, then each of those pieces into half, then each of those pieces into thirds. Place rolls on top of the caramel mixture in your glass dish, 4x3.

Cover with plastic wrap and let this sit for 1 hour.

Then bake at 350F for approx 30 - 40 mins. Take them out of the oven and let them cool for about 20 minutes, then flip them out onto a cookie sheet or large cutting board with parchment for easy clean up.

Fr. Justin's one thing - (Besides The Mustache) The Communio I've experienced in isolation

Discussion questions:

1. What struck you from the podcast?
2. What does friendship with God look like for you? How can you grow in friendship with Him?
3. What do you focus on more often, what you've been deprived of or what you have?
4. How can you practice remembering what God has done, in your life and in the world?
5. Where is the Fiat God is inviting you to make today?

Journal Questions:

1. Reflect and journal about this scripture: 1 Cor 15:55-57. What does it speak to you personally?
2. How can you spend time to deepen your friendship with Jesus?
3. Take a moment to answer God's question: Where are you? Are you with me?
4. Where can you take authority in your life to claim the victory?

Quote to Ponder - "No one, however weak, is denied a share in the victory of the cross. No one is beyond the help of the prayer of Christ." —St. Pope Leo the Great

Scripture for Lectio Divina - "Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting?" The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. - 1 Cor 15:55-57

Pope Francis' Easter Message

In this episode we talk about Pope Francis's Easter homily. We discuss the themes of not being paralyzed in the midst of fear, overcoming self protection, the power in choosing to do the next right thing, and practicing resurrection in our lives. Small acts of love and receiving the gift of hope can be the game changers we need in this season.

Sister Miriam's one thing - Heather Khym's playlist, "Hallelujah is our Song"

Michelle's one thing - The series The Chosen (Watch the trailer)

Heather's one thing - Stephanie Gretzinger's new song, "Center of all History". The song "Peace" by Bethel

Resources:

The text of Pope Francis' Easter Vigil Homily

Discussion questions:

1. What struck you from the podcast?
2. What was a little hidden "Easter egg" that you found this year?
3. In this cloistered time, how will you take silence to hear God speak to you, so you can emerge a resurrected person?
4. What are small gestures of care, affection, and prayer that you can make this week?
5. What are the stones you place in front of hope?

Journal Questions:

1. Reflect and journal about this scripture: Matthew 28:1-7. What does it speak to you personally?
2. Put yourselves in the position of one of the women throughout the Passion narrative. How do you react?
3. What is the mountain that overwhelms you? How can you focus on the next right step?
4. What are the places that you self protect and possibly miss out on a gift that God wants to give you?

Quote to Ponder - "Jesus' hope is different. He plants in our hearts the conviction that God is able to make everything work unto good, because even from the grave he brings life." - Pope Francis

Scripture for Lectio Divina - Matthew 28:1-7

When the sabbath was over,Mary Magdalene, Mary, the mother of James, and Salomebought spices so that they might go and anoint him.Very early when the sun had risen,on the first day of the week, they came to the tomb.They were saying to one another,"Who will roll back the stone for usfrom the entrance to the tomb?"When they looked up,they saw that the stone had been rolled back;it was very large.On entering the tomb they saw a young mansitting on the right side, clothed in a white robe,and they were utterly amazed.He said to them, "Do not be amazed!You seek Jesus of Nazareth, the crucified.He has been raised; he is not here.Behold the place where they laid him.But go and tell his disciples and Peter,'He is going before you to Galilee;there you will see him, as he told you.'"

Divine Mercy

In this episode we talk about the incredible gift of Divine Mercy! We talk a little bit about St. Faustina and our Lord's revelations to her about his ocean of mercy. We also discuss what a lack of trust looks like and what the stumbling blocks are to trusting in the heart of Jesus.

Sister Miriam's one thing - Tacos!

Michelle's one thing - The Diary of St. Faustina (links below)

Heather's one thing - The Be Not Afraid Conference from Stacey Sumereau

Resources:

Purchase The Diary of St. Faustina via US Amazon Link, a Canada Amazon link, and a UK Amazon link. (As an Amazon Associate, Abiding Together earns from qualifying Amazon purchases.)

Discussion questions:

1. What struck you from the podcast?
2. What does a lack of trust look like for you?
3. Do you trust the Lord with yourself? Do you trust him with the people you love?
4. Where do you feel difficulty depending or relying on others?
5. How trustworthy are you? How can you grow in being trustworthy?

Journal Questions:

1. Reflect and journal about this scripture: Jeremiah 17:7-8. What does it speak to you personally?
2. Inviting the Lord to come with you, look at the places where you find it difficult to trust? What lies did you believe that made trust difficult for you?
3. What new way is Jesus trying to show you? How can you cooperate with him?
4. What does it mean to say, "Jesus, I trust in You"? Where do you say "Jesus, I trust in You, except…"

Quote to Ponder - "There is nothing more man needs than Divine Mercy – that love which is benevolent, which is compassionate, which raises man above his weakness to the infinite heights to the holiness of God." - St. John Paul II Scripture for Lectio Divina - "But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him. They will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit." - Jeremiah 17:7-8

Holy Week: The Stations of the Cross

In this episode we decided to pray through the Stations of the Cross, found in St. Faustina's Diary. During Holy Week, we wanted to take this opportunity to quiet our hearts and reflect on our Lord's suffering and death, so we can enter in more fully. We hope that you will use this as a prayer resource and pray with your families or on your own.

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Discussion questions:

1. What part of the Stations of the Cross spoke to you?
2. How can you enter into Holy Week in a new way this year?
3. What does it mean to you, that Jesus suffered and died for you, so that you could be with Him in heaven forever?

Journal Questions:

1. Reflect and pray on Mt 26:40 "Then he came to the disciples and found them sleeping; and he said to Peter, "So, could you not stay awake with me one hour?"
2. How can you keep watch with Jesus during Holy Week?

Quote to Ponder - "Do not be afraid of sufferings; I am with you." - The Diary of St. Faustina (151)

Scripture for Lectio Divina - "Then he came to the disciples and found them sleeping; and he said to Peter, "So, could you not stay awake with me one hour?" Mt 26:40

Epilogue: Living the Painting

In this episode we finish up our 6 part series on the book The Return of the Prodigal Son and talk about "Living the Painting". We talk about how much of our healing happens in the context of community and relationship. We also discuss the process of bringing home parts of ourselves that live far away from God. Each of us have places that need to be welcomed home and as we heal, we are able to offer a home coming to the lost places in others.

Sister Miriam's one thing - Unbreakable Heart by JJ Heller

Michelle's one thing - Mother by JJ Heller, The Greenhouse Collective, and my really big keychain!

Heather's one thing - You Alone by Lauren Daigle

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Discussion questions:

1. What struck you from the podcast?
2. What places do you feel uncertain and need the reassurance of God the Father?
3. Can you relate to the experience of having parts of you that you don't "welcome home"? How can you begin to care for those parts of you?
4. What is a "sophisticated defense" you may need to leave behind?
5. What titles are you called to live further into (sister, mother, wife, daughter etc)? What does growth in those areas look like?

Journal Questions:

1. Reflect and journal about this scripture: Luke 15:11-32. What does it speak to you personally this last time?
2. How vulnerable are you allowing yourself to be in relationships? Are you opening up to the point that the ugliness can come out, and you can begin to receive healing within the safety of a community?
3. Where are you unwelcoming to yourself? Ask Christ to reveal to you how He sees you. What does he say?
4. What younger part of yourself is lost and needs to be welcomed home?

Quote to Ponder - "Everything in me yearned to be received in the way the prodigal son was received. That encounter turned out to be the beginning of my own return." - Henri Nouwen

Scripture for Lectio Divina - Luke 15:11-32 - The Parable of the Prodigal Son