We all have crosses to bear, whether it be illness, financial worries, addiction or perhaps the need for reconciliation with a relative or friend. We may develop a tendency to feel sorry for ourselves; to become distressed or disillusioned. So often, we feel the weight of the world is upon our shoulders. Seek to look at the trials of life in another way. The particular cross the Lord is asking you to carry is your path to a deeper holiness and intimacy with him. Do not resist it but embrace it with the strength God will provide. Have faith that Our Lord will never give us anything we are unable to handle. Remind yourself that “the cross is the way to paradise, but only when it is borne willingly.”